The Dolphin Way, Shimi Kang
The Dolphin Way, Shimi Kang
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The Dolphin Way
A Parent's Guide to Raising Healthy, Happy, and Motivated Kids - Without Turning into a Tiger

Author: Shimi Kang

Narrator: Karen Saltus

Unabridged: 9 hr 26 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Ascent Audio

Published: 07/01/2014


Synopsis

In this inspiring book, Harvard-trained child and adult psychiatrist and expert in human motivation Dr. Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and a lifelong love of learning. Drawing on the latest neuroscience and behavioral research, Dr. Kang shows why pushy “tiger parents” and permissive “jellyfish parents” actually hinder self-motivation. She proposes a powerful new parenting model: the intelligent, joyful, playful, highly social dolphin. Dolphin parents focus on maintaining balance in their children’s lives to gently yet authoritatively guide them toward lasting health, happiness, and success.

As the medical director for Child and Youth Mental Health community programs in Vancouver, British Columbia, Dr. Kang has witnessed firsthand the consequences of parental pressure: anxiety disorders, high stress levels, suicides, and addictions. As the mother of three children and as the daughter of immigrant parents who struggled to give their children the “best” in life—Dr. Kang’s mother could not read and her father taught her math while they drove around in his taxicab—Dr. Kang argues that often the simplest “benefits” we give our children are the most valuable. By trusting our deepest intuitions about what is best for our kids, we will in turn allow them to develop key dolphin traits to enable them to thrive in an increasingly complex world: adaptability, community-mindedness, creativity, and critical thinking.

Life is a journey through ever-changing waters, and dolphin parents know that the most valuable help we can give our children is to assist them in developing their own inner compass. Combining irrefutable science with unforgettable real-life stories, The Dolphin Way walks readers through Dr. Kang’s four-part method for cultivating self-motivation. The audiobook makes a powerful case that we are not forced to choose between being permissive or controlling. The third option—the option that will prepare our kids for success in a future that will require adaptability—is the dolphin way.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Trang

*Review dành cho bản dịch “Nuôi dạy con kiểu cá heo” của Nhã Nam. Sách có khá nhiều kiến thức hay về việc nuôi dạy con, làm mình phải suy nghĩ lại về việc mình sẽ nuôi con thế nào trong tương lai. Mặc dù mình thích những kiến thức và ví dụ trong sách nhưng mình không thích cách tác giả so sánh hai phư......more

Goodreads review by Laura

In her book, Kang offers sound research and examples from her own life or practice as medical director for Child and Youth Mental Health for Vancouver to support her idea that parents need to be more like dolphins. Kang says, “The dolphin parenting model is about guiding rather than directing, encou......more

Goodreads review by Noor

At the outset, I found that all the principles and the method advocated in this book aren't new or groundbreaking. I grew up in an environment where this was the only way to bring up children. The book is a good compilation of these values put in an engaging manner, but it's nothing I didn't already......more

Goodreads review by Jordana

Full review to come...Not your typical parenting book by any means– The Dolphin Way reads more like a study in psychology with tips and tricks than your every-day-run-of-the-mill “self-help book”. While some of her advice and focus is more applicable to different age groups than where I am as a pare......more

Goodreads review by Carol

I liked this book much more than I thought I would. The author is a Canadian psychiatrist, daughter of Indian immigrants. Her mother was illiterate, her father a cab driver. This book questions the methods of "tiger" parenting (which, as she rightly asserts, is not limited to Asian parents, nor are......more