Healing Honestly, Alisa Zipursky
Healing Honestly, Alisa Zipursky
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Healing Honestly
The Messy and Magnificent Path to Overcoming Self-Blame and Self-Shame

Author: Alisa Zipursky

Narrator: Rebecca Gibel

Unabridged: 8 hr 49 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Ascent Audio

Published: 06/06/2023


Synopsis

The Least Retraumatizing Read on Childhood Sexual Abuse. 
For Survivors, by a Survivor.

Healing Honestly is a candid, poignant, and often funny survivor-to-survivor guide to navigating the salty waters of untrue stories and victim-blaming narratives that survivors of child sex abuse hear every day.

Survivors of child sex abuse (CSA) are inundated with untrue stories of their abuse, the aftermath, and what their healing journey should look like. The truth is those stories are a bunch of hot garbage. 
 
Healing Honestly is a guide for survivors, written by a survivor, helping to break through the negative self-talk and debunk the myths that impact victims of CSA, such as: 
- There is a "real" survivor out there, and we are not it. 
- It happened so long ago that we should be over it by now. 
- We are having too much sex because of our trauma, and also, we are having too little sex because of our trauma. 
 
With an approachable style that makes heavy topics not so damn scary, this book shows how trauma survivors can learn to identify these untrue stories that often come up in dating, in friendships, in families, at work, and more. Readers will discover strategies for turning down the volume on the bullshit so that they can hear their own wisdom and inner truth more clearly.  
 
Full of wit and humor, Healing Honestly offers practical strategies for survivors of sex abuse to support themselves in living full and vibrant lives.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Dani on April 20, 2023

The healing starts at the table of contents and the community building starts even earlier. Alisa Zipursky shows up as a friend who has been there. A friend who can see through all the bullshit. A friend who truly cares and wants the best for you. She has written a funny (yes, it’s so true), warm, a......more

Goodreads review by laurenhoweird on June 06, 2023

This book is much needed within the realm of self-help. So often, workbooks and manuals written for survivors of CSA have been written by doctors and clinicians - which is great, but having this book written BY a fellow survivor makes every sentence resonate with the reader even more. having our exp......more

Goodreads review by Katrina on June 05, 2023

If you are a CSA survivor, please read this book.  If you think or believe you were abused but you doubt your memories are real because they aren't clear - please read this book.  If you feel alone in your healing and you seek support and validation - please read this book. This is a book that I wis......more

Goodreads review by Meghna on May 24, 2023

As an academic who struggles with writing and reading heavy language, I have found this book to be so warm, welcoming, easy to read and understand-- without the use of any elitist patronizing academic language. Yet, the message and content was so deep and profound! As a survivor of trauma and gender......more

Goodreads review by Meghan on June 06, 2023

This is a refreshing must-read for CSA survivors and allies, and the people that love them. Everyone has something they can learn from this book. You'll laugh, you'll cry, you'll highlight every other sentence! This book feels like having a conversation with a dear, dear friend. Alisa quickly creates......more