Sexy Selfie Nation, Leora Tanenbaum
Sexy Selfie Nation, Leora Tanenbaum
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Sexy Selfie Nation
Standing Up for Yourself in Today's Toxic, Sexist Culture

Author: Leora Tanenbaum

Narrator: Amy McFadden

Unabridged: 8 hr 45 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Tantor Media

Published: 03/24/2026


Synopsis

In this work, slut-shaming expert Leora Tanenbaum explains that when we criticize young women for wearing body-revealing outfits and sharing sexy selfies, we are losing the plot.

Young people are sick of being held responsible for others' inability to keep their eyes off their bodies. They explain that most of the time, they aren't even trying to sexualize themselves—and, when they do, they are taking control over their bodily autonomy.

Tanenbaum demonstrates that "sexy" does not mean "inviting sex," and that when young women and nonbinary people embrace a sexualized aesthetic or post sexy pictures, they do so on their own terms.

In choosing to wear body-revealing clothing and posting sexy selfies, young people are taking a stand for themselves and against three pillars of nonconsensual sexualization that shape their daily lives: gendered dress codes; nonconsensual sharing of intimate images; the aftermath of sexual harassment and assault.

Everyone should be able to stand up for themselves, experience a sense of bodily autonomy, and shape and share their image on their own terms.

If you like cultural criticism that supports women of all identities, then you'll love Sexy Selfie Nation.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Araya on March 08, 2025

Arc Review: Overall Rating: 4 Stars ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Cover Rating: 4 Stars ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ A very informative book, very truthful in its knowledge. I like seeing a more positive and empowering guide to the negativity and stigmas around these issues. Thank you NetGalley......more

Goodreads review by Catherine on April 10, 2025

My first NetGalley review! This was a pretty decent read. It was well-researched and nuanced; I respect that Tanenbaum doesn't shy away from an argument with contradictions, given that she addressed the contradictions in her analysis. She also thoroughly dives into the intersections of misogyny and......more

Goodreads review by Luna on March 21, 2026

This book was an interesting read and explored a lot of aspects. As a seasoned feminist, I can't say that I've learned a lot, but I will be recommending it to people who are newer to the subject for sure. It is well researched and provokes a lot of thinking. Thanks to NetGalley and Tantor Media | for......more

Goodreads review by Robert on May 20, 2025

A groundbreaking book that all men should read Leora Tanenbaum has once again written an authoritative book grounded on many interviews on a topic that should be of high interest to everyone - not just women. Thanks to her outstanding non-judgmental listening skills, Tanenbaum helped me understand wh......more

Goodreads review by Sara on March 04, 2025

This book, just like every other book Tanenbaum has penned, is beyond thought-provoking and will challenge you to think deeply every time you pick up your phone for a picture. Women want to feel sexy AND powerful, to have agency over their bodies and be beautiful, to maintain control over their sexu......more