Reinventing Masculinity, Ed Adams
Reinventing Masculinity, Ed Adams
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Reinventing Masculinity
The Liberating Power of Compassion and Connection

Author: Ed Adams, Ed Frauenheim

Narrator: Jeff Hoyt

Unabridged: 5 hr 23 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Ascent Audio

Published: 10/13/2020


Synopsis

"A wonderful book for thinking about how to release ourselves from crippling processes. It's time for men-and for all of us-to stand up and say, 'Give us back our full humanity, give us back our dignity.'"
-Paul Gilbert, PhD, author of The Compassionate Mind

In a recent FiveThirtyEight poll, 60 percent of men surveyed said society puts pressure on men to behave in a way that is unhealthy or bad. Men account for 80 percent of suicide deaths in the United States and twice as many opioid overdose deaths as women. It's clear we urgently need new a model for a masculinity that works for both men and women.

As an antidote to "toxic masculinity, which the authors reframe as Confined Masculinity, Ed Adams and Ed Frauenheim propose a new male paradigm: Expanded Masculinity. It replaces negative traits like hypercompetitiveness, anger, violence, misogyny, and extreme self-interest with compassion for others, a strong collaborative spirit, emotional expressivity, respect for cultural diversity and gender equality, and protection of the earth. Through hopeful stories, interviews with both thought leaders and everyday men, and practical exercises, this book shows the liberating power of a masculinity defined by the five Cs of Expanded Masculinity: Curiosity, Courage, Compassion, Connection, and Commitment. This way of being a man fosters healthy, harmonious relationships at every level.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Tara on June 25, 2021

I have had a secret pleasure since the early 1990s. I have loved reading masculinity studies and Men's Studies. Paul Smith is a legend. Jeff Hearn I would follow - anywhere. Considered Men's Studies, with attention to class, race and sexuality, offers profound theories of change. It has been a bit dr......more

Goodreads review by Keith on June 03, 2021

I was recommended this book by my wife's book-club-friend's husband. I appreciate this book for providing the vocabulary to discuss ideas that I already have. However, I do feel that the book comes up short in its material. I believe in the Five Cs and it sounds like M3 is a great organization, but......more

Goodreads review by Aleassa Jarvis on August 20, 2023

Really great book, written from a secular perspective. I wouldn’t endorse everything in it, but would highly recommend it as a relatively short, easy read. Anyone looking for a refreshing view on masculinity as healthy vs. toxic will appreciate the insights from two respected psychologists who bring......more

Goodreads review by Duncan on February 06, 2021

This is a cool book. I wish I could have had access to these thoughts, ideas and information years ago. But it's never too late to learn and grow! I think the most powerful aspect of this work is that it encourages men to examine who they are versus who they want to be as spouses, partners, fathers,......more

Goodreads review by Jason on November 29, 2020

Dr. Ed Adams and Ed Frauenheim bring unimpeachable credentials to their book Reinventing Masculinity: The Liberating Power of Compassion and Connection. Adams is a respected psychologist and onetime President of the American Psychological Association’s Division 51 devoted to the treatment of men and......more