On Giving Up, Adam Phillips
On Giving Up, Adam Phillips
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On Giving Up

Author: Adam Phillips

Narrator: Liam Price

Unabridged: 6 hr 5 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Tantor Media

Published: 10/28/2025


Synopsis

From acclaimed psychoanalyst Adam Phillips, a meditation on what we must give up to feel more alive.

To give up or not to give up?

The question can feel inescapable but the answer is never simple.

Giving up our supposed vices is one thing; giving up on life itself is quite another. One form of self-sacrifice feels positive, something to admire and aspire to, while the other is profoundly unsettling, if not actively undesirable.

There are always, it turns out, both good and bad sacrifices, but it is not always clear beforehand which is which. We give something up because we believe we can no longer go on as we are. In this sense, giving up is a critical moment―an attempt to make a different future.

In On Giving Up, the acclaimed psychoanalyst Adam Phillips illuminates both the gaps and the connections between the many ways of giving up and helps us to address the central question: What must we give up in order to feel more alive?

About Adam Phillips

Adam Phillips is one of the foremost psychoanalysts practicing in the world today, and a visiting professor in the English department at the University of York. He is the author of many books, including On Kissing, Tickling, and Being Bored and On Balance. He is also coauthor, with the historian Barbara Taylor, of On Kindness.


Reviews

Goodreads review by michal on April 25, 2024

A bit too loosely connected to the title essay, but I enjoyed most of what’s going on here regardless. I think the most interesting thing to extract here is this fascist state of mind idea, which is intrinsically connected to a censorious relationship to your own desires and, most importantly, curio......more

Goodreads review by Dee on March 03, 2024

Although small this piece of work provides the reader with multiple opportunities to explore the psyche. The material is dense but broken up well into the chapters making it more accessible. The whole concept of giving up and the pros and cons are explored in such depth. Answers are never simple or......more

Goodreads review by Maher on April 07, 2024

"من نقطة معينة لم يعد هناك عودة إلى الوراء." هذه هي النقطة التي يجب الوصول إليها. هذه واحدة من أقوال كافكا زوراو، التي كتبها خلال الحرب ــ بين عامي 1917 و1918 ــ مباشرة بعد تشخيص إصابته بمرض السل الذي أدى إلى قتله في نهاية المطاف. "من نقطة معينة لم يعد هناك عودة إلى الوراء." هذه هي النقطة التي يجب ا......more

Goodreads review by Sien on September 11, 2024

wow......more

Goodreads review by Sara on December 13, 2024

Was expecting to read more on "giving up"; nevertheless, it was enjoyable and refreshing.......more