Marriage and Lasting Relationships wi..., Eva A. Mendes
Marriage and Lasting Relationships wi..., Eva A. Mendes
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Marriage and Lasting Relationships with Asperger's Syndrome (Autism Spectrum Disorder)
Successful Strategies for Couples or Counselors

Author: Eva A. Mendes, Stephen Shore, EdD

Narrator: Lisa Rost-Welling

Unabridged: 8 hr 4 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Tantor Media

Published: 02/24/2026


Synopsis

Proven counseling strategies that will help improve the relationships of married, long-term, or cohabiting couples with Asperger's Syndrome (Autism Spectrum Disorder).

ASD relationship expert Eva A. Mendes provides advice straight from the couples' counseling room that can be applied in day-to-day living and help with the challenges that can arise in relationships where one or both partners are on the autism spectrum. This includes issues surrounding diagnosis, mental health, sexual compatibility, sensory needs, executive functioning, theory of mind, communication, and coparenting. She offers unique practical ideas for positive change such as creating a relationship schedule, making expression of appreciation and gratitude a part of every day, and finding mutually satisfying activities and special interests to engage in with your partner. The strategies in this book will be useful to couples themselves and any couples' counselors or therapists working with them.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Beauregard on August 15, 2018

Marriage counselors provide a needed service. Self help books on fixing marriages do not. Add in the quirk of one of the partners having autism and the book will be mostly a self-help misfiring. The author clearly thought it was important to label a person autistic (she uses the word ‘Aspergers’) if......more

Goodreads review by Lynn on March 20, 2017

I did not get any strategies from this book. It just made me realize my thoughts and feelings were normal for our relationship. At times it felt too simple and not very useful in making things better.......more

Goodreads review by Lili on August 03, 2015

From Netgalley for a review: If you suspect you or your partner is an Aspie, or you find stories of people's relationships and how they were changed once they found out they were an Aspie and then used the strategies in this book to save their relationship, then this book will probably be very useful......more

Goodreads review by Andrew on January 23, 2024

While the book contained some interesting insights, I felt it blamed the autistic partner for all the problems of the relationship. It makes out that the neurotypical partner is suffering injustice at the hands of an autistic idiot. A strengths-based approach would have been more useful. In the seco......more

Goodreads review by Angela on March 21, 2016

This title is written by a couples counselor who has an intimate yet detatched understanding os people on the Autism spectrum. There are practical strategies included fo managing the relationship as well as good ideas to improve communication. A friend who is Aspie said he felt the author had pinpoi......more