Being at Your Best When Your Kids Are..., Kim John Payne, MED
Being at Your Best When Your Kids Are..., Kim John Payne, MED
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Being at Your Best When Your Kids Are at Their Worst
Practical Compassion in Parenting

Author: Kim John Payne, MED

Narrator: Paul Brion

Unabridged: 4 hr 28 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Tantor Media

Published: 04/13/2021


Synopsis

When children are at their most difficult and challenging situations arise, how can we react in a way that reflects our family values and expectations? Often, when children "push our buttons," we find ourselves reacting in ways that are far from our principles, often further inflaming a situation.

When our children are at their worst, they need us to be at our best—or as close to it as we can be. Educator and family counselor Kim John Payne, author of Simplicity Parenting, offers techniques that simply and directly shift these damaging patterns in communication and parental behavior. These grounded and practical strategies will help you: slow down the interaction; be more in control of your reactions; open up a much wider range of helpful responses; sense what your child's deeper needs are even though they are misbehaving; and respond in a way that gives your child a feeling of being heard and still puts a boundary in place.

Payne's meditative approach can be done anywhere, anytime; it lifts you out of old, unwanted patterns of action-reaction and prepares you so that the voice you speak with is closer to the parent you want to be. His concrete and simple techniques can help you, and your children, be at your best, even in the most challenging of times.

About Kim John Payne, MED

Kim John Payne, MED, is the bestselling author of Simplicity Parenting and The Soul of Discipline. He is the founding director of the Simplicity Parenting Institute and the Center for Social Sustainability. He has served as a school and family counselor and consultant for over thirty years. He has appeared on many major media outlets such as NBC, BBC, CBC, NPR, Time magazine, the Chicago Tribune, the LA Times, and the New York Times. Together with his team he has trained over one thousand Simplicity Parenting coaches and group leaders all around the world. His books have been translated into over thirty languages. He regularly gives the keynote address to conferences both in North America and in a wide variety of countries. He lives with his wife and two children on a farm in western Massachusetts.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Genevieve on August 26, 2019

This title totally grabbed my attention and then I saw it was by the same author as Simplicity Parenting and I was sold. One of the most challenging parts of parenting is staying even-keeled and compassionate when the noise and chaos level is high, which is often...Our kids are wonderful and parenti......more

Goodreads review by Megan on September 21, 2022

For the author of “simplicity parenting”, this volume could use some simplifying. The changing fonts were annoying, the layout was frustrating (explaining why this Compassion Response is amazing before explaining the response itself), and there was just too much fluff to mine through to get at the g......more

Goodreads review by Misty on August 09, 2023

Unnecessarily long winded, lots of fluff. My take away basically being take a minute and calm down before responding. Not very groundbreaking, but it is what it is. My research of how to parent my high spirited child continues........more

Goodreads review by Kayla on October 20, 2024

Not a book so much about parenting, but instead a book about having compassion for yourself. About reflecting, pausing, and being kind to yourself. Slowing your responses and looking at your children with understanding. Would have liked more real life examples. A little slow. I found myself skimming......more

Goodreads review by Rachel on March 14, 2025

This book is a spiritual awakening call for parents. It outlines a detailed meditative approach for emotional self regulation primarily directed toward the interactions we have with our children. We need to celebrate our successes AND embrace our struggles.......more