After the Affair, Third Edition, Janis A. Spring
After the Affair, Third Edition, Janis A. Spring
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After the Affair, Third Edition
Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful

Author: Janis A. Spring

Narrator: Xe Sands

Unabridged: 9 hr 19 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: HarperAudio

Published: 02/02/2021


Synopsis

“Full of juicy, concrete advice to heal from an affair.” —Esther Perel, MA, LMFT, New York Times bestselling author of Mating in Captivity and The State of AffairsFrom a clinical psychologist who served as a clinical supervisor in the Department of Psychology at Yale University, received the CPA’s award for Distinguished Contribution to the Practice of Psychology, and has treated couples and trained therapists for over four decades, this newly updated, award-winning book provides concrete, proven strategies for those who seek to survive their partner’s infidelity and to rebuild the relationship after an affair.There is nothing quite like the devastation caused when a partner has been unfaithful. Hurt partners often experience a profound shattering of their familiar and valued sense of self and fall into a depression that can last for years. For the relationship, infidelity is often a death blow.This new third edition of After the Affair, with more than 600,000 copies sold, helps guide both hurt and unfaithful partners through three stages of healing: normalizing the crisis, deciding whether to recommit to their partner, and rekindling trust and sexual intimacy. It includes a new section in which patients ask questions not addressed in previous editions, and the author provides concrete strategies for earning trust and forgiveness.

About Janis A. Spring

Janis Abrahms Spring, Ph.D., is a nationally acclaimed expert on issues of trust, intimacy, and forgiveness. In private practice in Westport, Connecticut, she is the author of the award-winning How Can I Forgive You?, The Courage to Forgive, the Freedom Not To, and Life with Pop: Lessons on Caring for an Aging Parent.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Anna on April 14, 2025

So helpful for working with my clients walking this painful road. Although everything in it does not align with my values, this resource tackles the taboo topic of infidelity with fairness and the obvious benefit of experience. I wish I had read it earlier on in my work with couples.......more

Goodreads review by Armando on December 21, 2022

I really enjoyed this book. It was a great way to learn about the impact of an affair and how to recover from it. The author did a great job of explaining what happens after the affair and how to get through it. She also talked about how to make sure your partner is okay and doesn't feel like they n......more

Goodreads review by Amy on May 17, 2024

This book was an amazing way for me to understand my reactions after finding out about my ex partners porn addiction. It gave me a lot of answers to my "why" questions. It validated my emotions and that I wasn't crazy after being lied to, gaslit, and manipulated. However, the addition about porn was......more

Goodreads review by Greg on January 13, 2025

Super good book. Helped heal our marriage when we needed it the most. It provided much needed structure. It's fairly clinical but that makes it universal and you can work through your thoughts with your partner.......more

Goodreads review by Megan on January 31, 2022

I found this book to be very helpful in learning everything about affairs. To how and why they happen, to how to over come and become stronger individuals. I recommend for anyone who is dealing with the unfortunate reality of infidelity. Whether it be a family member going thru it or yourself.......more