Actually, It Is Your Parents Fault, Philip Van Munching
Actually, It Is Your Parents Fault, Philip Van Munching
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Actually, It Is Your Parents' Fault
Why Your Romantic Relationship Isn't Working and How to Fix It

Author: Philip Van Munching, Bernie Katz PhD

Narrator: Philip Van Munching

Unabridged: 6 hr 39 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 01/01/2007


Synopsis

Where has the heat in my relationship gone? Why doesn’t the attraction last? Why do we argue over the silliest things? And why are we still together? If this train of thought sounds familiar, this book is for you. Bestselling author Philip Van Munching and psychotherapist Dr. Bernie Katz have teamed up for a fascinating look at the psychological forces that shape our relationships.Even early childhood experiences can eventually dictate our love choices, creating unconscious elements in our personalities that both attract and repel our partners. Here are the tools to help you evaluate your relationships, recognize roadblocks, repair damage, and even decide whether a relationship is simply beyond help.Woven with personal anecdotes and told in a conversational tone, this is a funny, warm, readable relationship book.

About Philip Van Munching

Philip Van Munching is the author of Boys Will Put You on a Pedestal (so they can look up your skirt): A Dad’s Advice for Daughters. He has been a guest on such shows as Dr. Phil and the Today Show. He lives in Manhattan.

About Bernie Katz PhD

Bernie Katz, PhD, is in private practice on Long Island, New York. He is a former co-host of a live daily television show, State of Mind, on the America’s Talking cable network. He lives in Plainview, New York.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Leah on August 01, 2007

This book explains how the formation of your personality and the muddied waters of your unconscious substantially impact your interpersonal relationships. In addition to the explanation is the optimistic indication that with knowledge/understanding of your unconscious needs and those of your partner......more

Goodreads review by Rachel on March 28, 2021

This book is pretty mind-blowing, if a tiny bit dated in its psychology. The exploration of the roles our unconscious selves play in partner selection and relationship evolution, explains a lot for those of us facing years and years of cyclical problems. The end of the book is a little crammed and d......more

Goodreads review by Jennifer on September 27, 2017

I listened to the audiobook version and the part of the title that indicates this is to help with romantic relationships was cut off from my download. I've been single for decades so, while this was interesting, it helps if you're in a relationship when reading it.......more

Goodreads review by Amanda on May 03, 2024

Interesting, doesn't really show you how to fix any issues but more as a guide on how your childhood affects your personality and how that can collide with your significant other's personality.......more


Quotes

“This clever self-help is for individuals who aren't afraid to confront their past, take some responsibility, lose their guilt, and start breaking bad relationship habits…a welcoming guide that gives readers a long view of human relationships.” Publishers Weekly

“Well-written…The authors explain the dynamics of these patterns in practical language and offer a variety of tools…Philip Van Munching handles the narration with professional ease and a conversational tone. He’s easy to hear from start to finish.” AudioFile