You Belong Here, Kim Dabbs
You Belong Here, Kim Dabbs
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You Belong Here
The Power of Being Seen, Heard, and Valued on Your Own Terms

Author: Kim Dabbs

Narrator: Michelle H. Lee

Unabridged: 3 hr 39 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Ascent Audio

Published: 12/17/2024


Synopsis

Everyone feels like an outsider at some point in their life—when we walk into a room and think to ourselves, "I don't belong here." To avoid these feelings of exclusion, many of us hide our authentic selves and allow others to define our identity.

You Belong Here offers a new framework that allows each of us to define how we want to be seen, heard, and valued on our own terms so we feel a sense of belonging in any situation. Further, it serves as a launchpad for organizational leaders and culture builders to create safe spaces for individuals to show up as their authentic selves. Listeners will explore our four identities: Our Lived Identity is made up of the aspects of our identity we inherit when we are born into the world. Our Learned Identity includes the parts of our identity that we've chosen or claimed as we make our way through the world. Our Lingering Identity is the identity we default to when we feel like an outsider and fall back into as a survival mechanism. Our Loved Identity is where we find our authentic selves.

In the journey to understand our past experiences and how society has established barriers to entry, we can design our own future. We learn to rewrite the stories that aren't serving us and embrace the ones that do. Rather than look for a seat at someone else's table, we find the tools to build our own.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Tara on March 19, 2024

This book challenges you to look internally, identify your value, and find your voice.......more

Goodreads review by Marge on April 22, 2024

Kim gives a moving and insightful commentary on taking life's "hard knocks" and turning them into a learning and teaching experience. Kim triumphed over personal odds and learned that circumstances don't necessarily determine success. By doing self work on her "learned" and "lingering" identities, s......more

Goodreads review by Lisa on August 15, 2024

I like how she breaks down identity into the four parts: Lived, Learned, Lingering, and Loved. And I like the questions she poses to get one thinking about their identities. But she makes it sound like belonging will come naturally on the heels of that work. I think that the identity work is a start......more

Goodreads review by Kari on April 22, 2024

As Principal Sustainability at PADNOS, I've had the privilege of spearheading initiatives that not only advocate for environmental stewardship but also foster a supportive and inclusive workplace. You Belong Here is a must-read for anyone looking to merge these values into their organizational cultu......more

Goodreads review by Lisa on April 22, 2024

For anyone seeking to foster real community: read this book. The central premise is simple, yet profound: we cannot create spaces of belonging without first knowing all versions of ourselves: lived, learned, lingering, and loved. It left me inspired to do this reflection, and for the kind of culture......more