True Companions, Kelly Flanagan
True Companions, Kelly Flanagan
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True Companions
A Book for Everyone About the Relationships That See Us Through

Author: Kelly Flanagan

Narrator: Adam Verner

Unabridged: 5 hr 57 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 02/09/2021


Synopsis

When we quit sabotaging intimacy in our relationships by demanding unconditional love, we discover something much greater—the deeply satisfying, transformational love that is companionship.

In this book psychologist Kelly Flannagan shows how each of us has within ourselves, exactly the way we are, the gifts that are needed to cultivate the life-long relationship we are longing for, whether it is within marriage or friendship. He shows us how self-knowledge leads the way to growing in love for both God and others. He shows us how understanding our own loneliness can help us relieve the pressure on our companions. And he shows us how understanding our own psychological and emotional defenses can help us to make the choice to love more vulnerably. More than a marriage book, this is a companionship book. Anyone—from single young adults to elderly married couples, from the divorced to the widowed, from siblings to friends—can benefit from the wisdom it uncovers about what it means to be human and to be true companions.

About Kelly Flanagan

Kelly Flanagan is a clinical psychologist, popular speaker, and the author of The Marriage Manifesto, Loveable, and True Companions. He has also written for publications such as Christianity Today, Reader's Digest, and Huffington Post, and he has appeared on the Today show with his daughter. He lives in Dixon, Illinois, with his wife who is also named Kelly, and their three children.


Reviews

Goodreads review by David on June 09, 2021

I'll be honest that I really struggled with how to review this book because I think it's just not for me. I really enjoyed the first part of the book and he had some wonderful ideas. He argues that loneliness is normal and not a terrible thing. He also argues that expecting people to unconditionally......more

Goodreads review by Cathie on February 07, 2021

You know that feeling when you meet a new friend and, as you get to know them, you come away from every encounter with them encouraged, a bit more equipped to understand yourself and others, more transformed…and it’s because that friend shares so vulnerably, with such transparency…that you can ident......more

Goodreads review by Jill on February 01, 2021

I loved Dr. Flanagan’s first book, so I was eager to read rue Companions. My favorite part of this book is that it isn’t a book about marriage—it’s a book about being companions in life. For that reason, it’s invaluable for marriages but also for friendships, family, and for me as a pastor. Our cultu......more

Goodreads review by Brittany on November 21, 2024

I read this book with my book club a few chapters at a time over six months, so my view of the whole feels a bit thin, but it definitely generated some great discussions along the way. As with most things, some parts I found intriguing, some I agreed with, and others left me shaking my head both in......more

Goodreads review by Kellie on February 18, 2023

I was expecting to love this book but honestly, I don't think I can finish it :( To be fair, it did start out strong. I love that the author highlights "Philia" love; companionship, friendship, and intimacy through presence with one another and with God. If you want to read this book you will get a......more