Tongue Tied, Stella Harris
Tongue Tied, Stella Harris
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Tongue Tied
Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships

Author: Stella Harris

Narrator: Reagan West

Unabridged: 8 hr

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Tantor Media

Published: 08/24/2021

Synopsis

Sex is still a touchy subject despite recent sex-positive advances. We live in a culture that vilifies people who are sexually adventurous and frames our kinks as shame-inducing perversions. Many people have never been able to talk openly about sex with their partner(s). But, you can get what you want out of the bedroom—if you ask for it. Why should anyone settle for mediocre sex?!

Whether addressing sexual frustration with your partner, trying out new fantasies, or negotiating the terms of a BDSM scene, Stella Harris believes that communication skills are vital to sexual fulfillment. Tongue Tied gives listeners straightforward advice on how to conquer their fears, identify their needs, and feel positively empowered. Harris charmingly takes listeners through all aspects of communication, from basic interpersonal skills to negotiation advice for expert-level kink play. Learn how to have fun, embrace silly moments, support your loved ones, and take personal responsibility for your desires.

An incredible guide full of exercises, tools, and personal examples, Tongue Tied is a must-listen for people of every experience level and relationship status.

Contains mature themes.

About Stella Harris

Stella Harris is changing the way people experience their sex lives. As a certified intimacy educator and sex coach, she gives her students the tools and confidence to explore their sexuality safely and free of shame. A national and international speaker, Stella teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella writes a weekly sex advice column for Portland's Willamette Week newspaper, and her erotic fiction has appeared in more than a dozen anthologies.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Rachel on February 25, 2019

I've been writing professionally about sex for 15 years, but even I sometimes have trouble talking to intimate partners about sex. In theory, it's easy, but in practice it can be more challenging, especially when the stakes feel high emotionally. Stella Harris is an excellent guide on the topic, off......more

Goodreads review by Kayla on January 17, 2021

This is my second time reading Tongue-Tied and my initial impression remains the same: This is the best book I’ve ever read for learning how to communicate with a partner about sex and kink. I highly recommend this for anyone who struggles with communication in their relationships. While there are p......more

Goodreads review by Michael on June 17, 2023

I'm going to be blunt. I've spent my entire life having awful to bad sex, with occasional diversions into decent sex. There are a lot of reasons for that, but the most basic is that I never asked any of my partners to do the things I wanted to do. The thesis of this book is that if you can get over......more

Goodreads review by A. on February 02, 2022

Solid. Straightforward. Clear. 3.5 stars......more

Goodreads review by Holly on August 29, 2018

I reviewed this book which was provided for free by the publisher. However, I do not recieve any compensation for reviews. All book reviews are my personal and subjective opinion. This is cross posted from my blog If you are a human who talks to other humans, you should read this book.  Tongue Tied is......more

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