The Perfectionists Dilemma, Tara Cousineau
The Perfectionists Dilemma, Tara Cousineau
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The Perfectionist's Dilemma
Learn the Art of Self-Compassion and Become a Happy Achiever

Author: Tara Cousineau

Narrator: Candace Joice

Unabridged: 10 hr 24 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Tantor Media

Published: 02/25/2025


Synopsis

In today's high-pressure society, we are constantly fed a fable of individualism, exceptionalism, determination, and ingenuity and taught a mythology of grin and bear it; no pain, no gain; and hard work pays off, despite the fact that the conditions for success are unpredictable and ever changing.

Psychologist Tara Cousineau claims that perfectionism is a paradox: it is the tension created by the need for belonging, a desire for excellence, and a quest for a meaningful and productive life. But perfectionism can be transformed by learning to connect both head and heart, replacing inner algorithms of comparison and criticism with self-acceptance and self-compassion.

In The Perfectionist's Dilemma, Cousineau introduces an innovative six-step solution based on the acronym EVOLVE: Embody the present moment; Validate your experience; Open your heart; Love your inner critic; make a Vow; and spark the Energy of excellence. EVOLVE helps listeners overcome perfectionism and cultivate three essential resources—inner worth, inner humanity, and inner leadership. Through storytelling and anecdotes from recovering perfectionists who have participated in Cousineau's workshops, listeners can learn to align mind, body, heart, and spirit—to become happy achievers.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Lulabelle42 on March 26, 2025

This book was an overview of perfectionism. I prefer Jon Acuff's Soundtracks which is, IMO, a better book for changing your inner monologue and thoughts. The book gives a case-study backed overview of how psychologists might handle a client with perfectionist. The author references seminars for perf......more

Goodreads review by Denise on February 13, 2025

The Perfectionist's Dilemma has a lot of strength in the storytelling and personal narratives of selected people , hearing you are not alone in your thoughts and feelings is very powerful. The book also has a lot of practical tips and thought redirection work to help those who havent been through th......more

Goodreads review by Kiley on February 15, 2025

If you’re tired of feeling paralyzed by perfectionism and want to free yourself from its grip, this book is a must-read. It’s more than just a book—it’s a lifeline for anyone ready to break free and live a more fulfilling, less stressful life. I’m truly grateful for the impact it has had on my journ......more

Goodreads review by Dora on September 19, 2024

For someone who always wants things to go as I want them to and to be the utmost awesome, this book right here and the six step process got my attention at the very first call to embrace the present moment, and somehow it's what I struggle with- just appreciating the present moment. Thanks Netgalley......more

Goodreads review by Sam on April 24, 2025

Good concept but it's really difficult to listen to on audiobook because of all of the lists and charts. Really basic intro to perfectionism......more