The Men in My Life, Vivian Gornick
The Men in My Life, Vivian Gornick
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The Men in My Life

Author: Vivian Gornick

Narrator: J. Michael McCullough

Unabridged: 3 hr 58 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Tantor Media

Published: 04/06/2021


Synopsis

Vivian Gornick, one of our finest critics, tackled the theme of love and marriage in her last collection of essays, The End of the Novel of Love, a National Book Critics Circle Award finalist. In this new collection, she turns her attention to another large theme in literature: the struggle for the semblance of inner freedom. Great literature, she believes, is not the record of the achievement, but of the effort.

Gornick, who emerged as a major writer during the second-wave feminist movement, came to realize that "ideology alone could not purge one of the pathological self-doubt that seemed every woman's bitter birthright." Or, as Anton Chekhov put it so memorably: "Others made me a slave, but I must squeeze the slave out of myself, drop by drop." Perhaps surprisingly, Gornick found particular inspiration for this challenge in the work of male writers—talented, but locked in perpetual rage, self-doubt, or social exile. From these men—who had infinitely more permission to do and be than women had ever known—she learned what it really meant to wrestle with demons. In the essays collected here, she explores the work of V. S. Naipaul, James Baldwin, George Gissing, Randall Jarrell, H. G. Wells, Loren Eiseley, Allen Ginsberg, Hayden Carruth, Saul Bellow, and Philip Roth.

About Vivian Gornick

Vivian Gornick is a writer and critic whose work has received two National Book Critics Circle Award nominations and been collected in The Best American Essays 2014. Growing up in the Bronx amongst communists and socialists, Gornick became a legendary writer for Village Voice, chronicling the emergence of the feminist movement in the 1970s. Her works include the memoirs Fierce Attachments and The Odd Woman and the City and the classic text on writing, The Situation and the Story.


Reviews

Goodreads review by julieta on September 14, 2018

Vivian Gornick is a dream teacher, every time I read her, I see more things happening in all texts, not just the ones she speaks of in these wonderful essays. Her thoughts are always kind of electrifying, she's pretty great. I had read some of them, since they have been published in other books, but......more

Goodreads review by Mari on November 22, 2011

The title of the book, The Men In My Life, by Vivian Gornick mislead me to think that it would be a tell-all of various romantic encounters experienced by the author. Upon receiving it from Amazon, I found that it was instead a collection of essays about the literary men who influenced Gornick in he......more

Goodreads review by Oni on October 28, 2018

Behind that deceptive title are eight pieces of great literary criticism. For the men in Vivian Gornick's life that get attention in this work are Philip Roth and Saul Bellow, V.S. Naipaul and James Baldwin, Raymond Carver, Richard Ford, and Allen Ginsberg, to name just a few. When asked in an inter......more

Goodreads review by Steve on June 20, 2015

If there is a better critic writing today please let me know who it is. I'm playing catch-up with Gornick, but that just means I have a lot of great reading ahead of me. She astonishing.......more

Goodreads review by Derek on August 07, 2021

On this short essay collection Gornick demonstrates her talent for accessible literary criticism. Her Roth critique is probably the most important essay here. I love the way Gornick’s works of literary criticism, feminist theory, women’s history, and memoir all seem to be informed by one another. On......more