Roughhouse Friday, Jaed Coffin
Roughhouse Friday, Jaed Coffin
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Roughhouse Friday
A Memoir

Author: Jaed Coffin

Narrator: Jaed Coffin

Unabridged: 8 hr 46 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 06/18/2019


Synopsis

"Jaed Coffin narrates these personal stories of his encounters..His quiet, calm narration has a steady, honest tone as he describes his upbringing, his relationship with his father, and the low-level fights that take him around Alaska." — AudioFile Magazine

This program is read by the author.

A beautifully crafted memoir about fathers and sons, masculinity, and the lengths we sometimes go to in order to confront our past.

While lifting weights in the Seldon Jackson College gymnasium on a rainy autumn night, Jaed Coffin heard the distinctive whacking sound of sparring boxers down the hall. A year out of college, he had been biding his time as a tutor at a local high school in Sitka, Alaska, without any particular life plan. That evening, Coffin joined a ragtag boxing club. For the first time, he felt like he fit in.

Coffin washed up in Alaska after a forty-day solo kayaking journey. Born to an American father and a Thai mother who had met during the Vietnam War, Coffin never felt particularly comfortable growing up in his rural Vermont town. Following his parents’ prickly divorce and a childhood spent drifting between his father’s new white family and his mother’s Thai roots, Coffin didn’t know who he was, much less what path his life should follow. His father’s notions about what it meant to be a man—formed by King Arthur legends and calcified in the military—did nothing to help. After college, he took to the road, working odd jobs and sleeping in his car before heading north.

Despite feeling initially terrified, Coffin learns to fight. His coach, Victor “the Savage,” invites him to participate in the monthly Roughhouse Friday competition, where men contend for the title of best boxer in southeast Alaska. With every successive match, Coffin realizes that he isn’t just fighting for the championship belt; he is also learning to confront the anger he feels about a past he never knew how to make sense of.

Deeply honest and vulnerable, Roughhouse Friday is a meditation on violence and abandonment, masculinity, and our inescapable longing for love. It suggests that sometimes the truth of what’s inside you comes only if you push yourself to the extreme.

About Jaed Coffin

Jaed Coffin is the author of the memoir A Chant to Soothe Wild Elephants and teaches in the University of New Hampshire’s MFA creative writing program. He lives in Brunswick, New Hampshire.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Scarlett✨17™ on August 26, 2020

Much better than I thought it would be; reads like a story rather than a dull recollection of childhood stories.......more

Goodreads review by Edwin on June 12, 2019

In Jaed Coffin's memoir, ROUGHHOUSE FRIDAY, Coffin has recently escaped to Alaska after college unsure what to do with his life. He stumbled upon a local boxing club and quickly boxing gives his a drive, a purpose, and a hope for the future. In a style that I can only describe as unique, Coffin qui......more

Goodreads review by Ben on August 10, 2021

actually so bad and not even worth my time to write a whole review......more

Goodreads review by John on August 04, 2023

Well written memoir of a year in Sitka Alaska via 1000-mile solo kayak trip up the Inside Passage from Seattle. Boxing club, high school classroom and roughhouse boxing (i.e., via makeshift rings in bars). The real story is the author’s insight into family of Vietnam vet father, Thai mother and bein......more

Goodreads review by Elizabeth on July 16, 2021

This memoir is fascinating and surprisingly fresh-different. Jaed Coffin, with origins that are half Thai (Mom) and half preppy New Englander (Dad) is born in Vermont and through divorce comes of age in Maine. Mom and Dad meet when Dad is shipped over during the Vietnam War. They come back married a......more