Parenting a Spicy One, Mary Van Geffen
Parenting a Spicy One, Mary Van Geffen
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Parenting a Spicy One
A Compassionate Guide for Raising a Deep-Feeling and Wonderfully Strong-Willed Kid

Author: Mary Van Geffen

Narrator: Mary Van Geffen

Unabridged: 10 hr 23 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 02/10/2026


Synopsis

Tired of negotiating with a tiny tyrant? Feeling drained by extreme emotions and unpredictable outbursts—including your own? Do you fear you might be raising a menace but also want to avoid dimming their sparkly light? Does "gentle parenting" advice make you chuckle bitterly because it doesn't work on your kid?

Welcome to parenting a Spicy One—a child more loyal to their own soul than to your agenda. Parenting coach and adult Spicy One Mary Van Geffen knows raising these future world changers requires courage and compassion. Based on her experience guiding thousands of parents through her program, she offers a transformative approach to staying calm during five-alarm tantrums; choosing connection over control; maintaining boundaries without crushing their spirit; finding joy and confidence in parenting this prickly creature; being okay when they are not; and parenting with a tenderness you never experienced as a child.

Each chapter provides small, doable changes to help you become calmer, kinder, and firmer, plus self-reflection questions to help you make space for the exceptional adult your Spicy One will one day become. It's never too late to confidently choose effective, respectful discipline—to transform both your relationship with your larger-than-life kid and yourself.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Camden on February 05, 2026

This book is an absolute gem! I was asked to read an early copy to consider sharing with my audience, but I needed this book, too! As a parent of a Spicy One (which Mary defines as deep feeling, strong willed, and/or neurodivergent), I benefitted from the exercises in the book that reframe how you v......more

Goodreads review by Athena 💗 on February 02, 2026

Thank you RB Media and Christian Audio for an ALC of Parenting A Spicy One. The second I saw this cover I knew I needed to listen to it because I have a spicy 10 year old at home. I started listening to it for her but quickly realized the author was describing me. 😳😂 I had to pause the audiobook so......more

Goodreads review by Kayla on February 05, 2026

This book feels like an oasis in the desert, a warm hug, and a shot of espresso. If you have a kiddo who traditional and modern parenting advice doesn’t “work” for, you probably need this book. Mary helps you envision the life you want to create with your family and then gives you the practical tool......more

Goodreads review by Rachelle on February 11, 2026

In the opening scene Mary describes holding her child during a meltdown. And not an ordinary "my kid throws a tantrum too" type of meltdown, but a five-alarm situation with screaming, attempted biting, and physical bruising (of Mary by her child). I could feel the intensity of that moment because I......more

Goodreads review by Ro on February 10, 2026

Holy cow did I love this book. It landed in my hands at exactly the right time. Over the past few years I’ve been realizing that not only do I have a spicy one, but my spouse and I are spicy ones too… which has been… illuminating. Reading this felt like finding not just a guidebook, but a mirror and......more