One Bad Mother, Ej Dickson
One Bad Mother, Ej Dickson
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One Bad Mother
In Praise of Psycho Housewives, Stage Parents, Momfluencers, and Other Women We Love to Hate

Author: Ej Dickson

Narrator: Ej Dickson

Unabridged: 8 hr 4 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 02/10/2026


Synopsis

For fans of the witty and evocative writing of Anne Helen Petersen and Amanda Montell, a sharply clever exploration of what it means to be a “bad mom” by delving into the world of momfluencers, stage moms, trad wives, and more.

We all have an idea what it means to be a good mom: little screen time, kids hitting their milestones, endless patience and understanding, and self-sacrifice on behalf of one’s children. But what does it mean to be a “bad mom” in modern society? Women as wide-ranging as Meghan Markle, Hannah Neelman (of Ballerina Farm), and anyone giving birth over forty, have been labeled “bad moms.” In a world where the rules are constantly changing, it feels like women simply cannot win.

With this in mind, in her first book, Ej Dickson takes a sharp, provocative look at one of society’s most polarizing labels: the “bad mom.” What makes a mother “bad,” and why? Through the lens of pop culture and American history, Ej Dickson explores how this trope has evolved—from Victorian “angels in the house” to the infamous Mommie Dearest, from Instagram influencers like EmRata and Mormon momfluencers to fictional icons like The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel.

Each chapter dives into a different archetype of so-called bad motherhood—like the Stage Mom, the Tiger Mom, the MILF, the MLM hun—challenging us to rethink our assumptions about femininity, parenting, and societal expectations. Drawing on insightful analysis and interviews, Dickson unpacks why our culture is obsessed with vilifying moms and how issues of race and class shape these narratives. Are bad moms truly “bad,” or do they simply defy norms we don’t fully understand—or fear?

This isn’t just cultural commentary—it’s a clarion call. Because if we really take a close look, we might find that some of the women we’ve reviled throughout history are due for a reassessment — and in doing so, moms today may take some much-needed pressure off themselves. One Bad Mother invites moms everywhere to stop chasing impossible standards, reclaim their autonomy, and maybe—just maybe—enjoy motherhood for what it is, not what it’s “supposed” to be.

Thoughtful, eye-opening, and downright funny at times, One Bad Mother is a vital exploration of modern motherhood.

About Ej Dickson

Ej Dickson is a senior writer at New York magazine’s The Cut. She previously worked as a senior writer for Rolling Stone and her writing has also been published in The New York TimesThe Washington PostGQElle, and many othersShe lives with her family in Brooklyn, New York. Visit EjDickson.com for more information.


Reviews

Goodreads review by ♡Heather✩Brown♡ on February 15, 2026

Idk yet .. I mostly liked this book but I have a few issues with it 🫣 let’s stop bashing moms but at the same time talk about a case we never followed. Seems fitting for a different type of book. Also, I feel it didn’t need to be clearly said IVE NEVER DONE THIS .. putting yourself in that category......more

Goodreads review by Ali on February 06, 2026

I am not a non-fiction reader by any means, and when I do read non-fiction, it is usually a memoir, but as a mother, I knew I had to read this. Do you stay at home with your kids, depriving them of structure and early socialization? You're a bad mother. How could you leave your precious darlings in......more

Goodreads review by Cari on October 13, 2025

My review is stuck in Edelweiss loading. Which is also where I got the ARC for this. Thank you, Edelweiss. More to the review when I can get it.......more

Goodreads review by Paige on February 18, 2026

Thank you to the publisher for the release day copy! I was genuinely excited to dive into this book after receiving a copy through NetGalley, as the premise sounded absolutely fantastic. Unfortunately, the execution did not live up to its potential, and I ultimately decided to stop reading at the 62%......more

Goodreads review by Ag on October 22, 2025

As soon as I started reading it, I knew I had stumbled upon gold. Ok, I was kind of already expecting gold when I chose to click that I want to read it. But oh em gee, this did not disappoint. The author has done some serious thinking and has gone down some serious rabbit holes. If you are a parent –......more