No One Talks About This Stuff, Kat Brown
No One Talks About This Stuff, Kat Brown
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No One Talks About This Stuff
Twenty-Two Stories of Almost Parenthood

Author: Kat Brown

Narrator: Debra Michaels, Des Yankson, Kat Brown, Melanie Crawley

Unabridged: 8 hr 16 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 02/26/2026


Synopsis

No One Talks About This Stuff is a support group for almost-parents. A place to share their journeys of loss and limbo, to confront social pressure and to find courage in the darkness of tragedies which happen every day yet are brushed under the carpet.

So, we hear from a stepmother who wrestles with infertility. A husband and wife each tell their experience of losing their baby. A lesbian comes of age at a time when gay people rarely become parents. A father finds loss to be his unlikely superpower. Complex post-traumatic stress disorder impacts a person's choices about having a family. A black woman unpacks ancestral shame while finding renewed purpose. And each person shares how they lived through it.

This captivatingly beautiful, profound and honest anthology opens a much-needed conversation about society, family and honouring the missing children we will never forget.

About Kat Brown

Kat Brown is a freelance journalist and commentator whose national work on ADHD, mental health stigma and other social and arts commentary has appeared in the Telegraph, Grazia, Woman's Hour and The Times. She is also the author of No One Talks About This Stuff, a groundbreaking anthology sharing people's untold experiences of infertility and baby loss.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Daniella on March 20, 2024

"No one talks about these things because they belong to each of us utterly individually – in sharing them we can offer each other another possibility of belonging." Stella Duffy's closing essay sums up the value of No One Talks About This Stuff, a book which sensitively brings together a diverse ran......more

Goodreads review by Teresa on August 09, 2025

Ich erwartete ein Buch über Menschen, die ihren Kinderwunsch nicht erfüllen konnten. Die Essays waren spannend zu lesen und gewähren private Einblicke, gleichzeitig kamen für meinen Geschmack zu viele Paare vor, die dann doch noch eine Familie gründen konnten. Aufgrund der Buchbeschreibung war dies......more

Goodreads review by Heather on August 17, 2025

This was so great to read, because like they say, no one talks about this stuff, and it can be confusing and isolating. It’s a book of stories and reflections on infertility, miscarriage, baby loss, and childlessness, from people who understand that just because you really want something, just becau......more

Goodreads review by Simplymegy on January 17, 2025

This book is a collection of essays written by various authors who have struggled with infertility, pregnancy loss, and childlessness. A support group in a book is truly what this was, offering solace to others who may feel isolated in their own struggles. I loved that no two stories were alike, each......more

Goodreads review by Victoria Ford on April 09, 2024

It was very refreshing to find shared sentiments in many of the essays in this collection. Although everyone's stories and experiences were very different, the common themes of love and grief were universal. I'm so grateful that this book exists, and thankful to each of the brilliant writers for sha......more


Quotes

Frank, humorous essays about facing infertility, pregnancy loss and childlessness... With entries that are somber, angry and wry... No One Talks About This Stuff addresses the feelings of shame and sadness that accompany atypical experiences with parenthood

Shining a warm light on the stories that should never have sat in the shadows. Each generously shared experience powerfully validates and chips away at shame, as it speaks the truth of hoping, waiting, losing, loving and questioning. This book welcomes knowing nods, valuable insight and hope to those who are tired of sitting behind the taboo. Life affirming, searingly honest and deeply moving

Kat's raw, honest and open book - with her words and those of her contributors - will allow you to find the peace, the rage, the acceptance, the anger, the love, the hatred, the joy and the connection that we all need to be allowed to feel when life deals us an unexpected and unfair hand. Kat could not have described NOTATS more perfectly by saying it is a support group in a book; it is that, and so much more

Kat Brown's constellation of stories explores the persistently misunderstood experience of reproductive loss. The voices of the contributors are necessarily varied, but they are unified by fascinating and moving insights