Its Not About Communication!, Dr. Bruce Chalmer
Its Not About Communication!, Dr. Bruce Chalmer
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It's Not About Communication!
Why Everything You Know About Couples Therapy is Wrong

Author: Dr. Bruce Chalmer

Narrator: Dr. Bruce Chalmer

Unabridged: 3 hr 58 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 12/05/2022


Synopsis

Frustrated in Your Relationship? This Book Will Give You Hope!How do you feel about your relationship? How’s your intimate life, emotionally, sexually, or otherwise? Are you feeling stuck? Hurt? Angry?You’re not alone–and you’re not crazy! And there’s hope–you can feel better.Written in a relatable and sometimes irreverent style, It’s Not About Communication! will help you understand the problems you’re having–and help you get on the path to solving them. Whether you’re in couples therapy, thinking about it, or want to solve your problems on your own, this book will give you hope, calm you down, and point you in the right direction.And if you're a couples therapist yourself, this book will inspire you to work with your clients rather than on them--and help you regain that sense of dedication and purpose that led you to become a therapist in the first place.Why You Should Read It’s Not About Communication!:You don’t have to feel stuck!You’ll learn:Why practicing communication rules and techniques is wasting your timeHow a simple seven-word formula can guide you toward healing, growth, and passionate connectionWhy a mindset of faith—not necessarily religious—is the key to feeling better, getting unstuck, and finding hopeHow to decide if your couples therapy is helping—and what to do if it isn’tWhy ideas open possibilities, and ideologies shut down possibilities—and why that’s important for couples therapyWhy your couples therapist’s advice is probably useless—and what you really need from your therapistWhy couples therapy is a lot like improv theaterWhether you’re looking to improve your own relationship, or helping others improve theirs, It’s Not About Communication! will guide and inspire you. 

Reviews

Goodreads review by Lindsay on March 03, 2023

This is very provocative. I have read a number of relationship books and yet I was continuously presented with new ideas. The author has a podcast and the title of this book stems from his most popular episode, so have a listen to see if this book might help you. During my 19-year relationship/marri......more

Goodreads review by Lisa on December 15, 2023

I was interviewed by Dr. Chalmers on his podcast and decided to read & review his books. Our thoughts align on so many things. Loads of couples have come to me to say they have a “communication” problem and I always cheekily say “no you don’t!” Usually the problem is connection, not communication. D......more

Goodreads review by Nancy on November 17, 2022

Dr. Chalmer has a unique and approachable way of getting his message across that I love. He gives a deeper understanding of the concept of communication by providing real-world examples, questions to give the reader a guided way to think about the material, and references for those who want to explo......more