How Do I Sexy?, Nillin Lore
How Do I Sexy?, Nillin Lore
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How Do I Sexy?
A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers

Author: Nillin Lore, Sophie Labelle

Narrator: Ezra Wayne

Unabridged: 5 hr 33 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 08/23/2024


Synopsis

A practical and insightful consideration of what it means to be sexual as a trans, queer person from activist Mx. Nillin Lore.What even is “sexy,” and how do you do it? A tough question for trans and nonbinary queers struggling to find their sexual selves in a landscape rife with misogynistic, transphobic and homophobic ideals and expectations.In How Do I Sexy? Mx. Nillin Lore provides affirming and helpful direction based on over a decade of their own personal and professional experience as an educator, advocate, support worker and award-winning sex blogger.You’re invited to do some deep introspection, find a look that feels right and gain insight on sexiness from fellow trans and nonbinary queers. You’ll also find valuable tips on navigating dating sites, finding community, managing rejection with grace and engaging in sexual relationships. Principled and compassionate, Mx. Nillin Lore will help you figure out who you want to be, who you want to be with and how to make it happen—both in the streets and between the sheets.

Reviews

Goodreads review by S.B. on May 18, 2024

How Do I Sexy? is many things. As a Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers, it is a book about both how and why to be sexy, with equal measures of affirmation and advice. It's more than just a h0w-to guide, however, with Nillin Lore weaving biography and philosophy into the 'why' aspects of the book,......more

Goodreads review by Anna on July 02, 2024

How Do I Sexy? is a guide for trans, nonbinary, and other gender diverse people of all body types to navigate finding your sexiness in a world where gender non-conforming people are often regarded as less attractive or desirable than the cishet folks that set society's definitions of what is sexy. N......more

Goodreads review by Avery on March 25, 2024

Thank you Netgalley for providing me this arc. As I write this I'm in a weird space in my life as I come to terms with what I want and what my new normal will look/feel like. So, of course, when I saw this one on Netgalley I had to read it. I wasn't sure what I expected when I opened this one, but I......more

Goodreads review by Isaiah on December 10, 2024

To read more reviews check out MI Book Reviews. I got an ARC of this book. The first thing that struck me about this book was the drastic difference in a single term. I was shocked when I read it. Apparently Canada and the US (or at least my part of the US) have a different view of the term Trap. In C......more

Goodreads review by Tanner on September 11, 2024

Nillin has once again blew my mind! This book not only taught me about confidence but how to proudly show it off as well. This book helped me to understand different types of attraction and intimacy, some I never knew about! This book educated me on essential queer topics, that our school systems se......more