Generation Uncoupled
America's New Gender Divide and the Crisis of Human Connection

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“In this well-written book, Daniel Cox combines creative empirical research with thoughtful reflections about where this relational crisis is leading and what we should do about it. Regardless of your politics, if you’re concerned about the future of America—and who isn’t?—this book is must reading.”—Robert D. Putnam, Professor Emeritus, Harvard Kennedy School, bestselling author of Bowling Alone

“Generation Uncoupled is a very good book that addresses a very important question: What’s wrong with young people in America? Why do they have fewer friends, fewer hangouts, and fewer parties than previous generations? As Daniel Cox explains, American culture today tells young people to optimize the self, curate their own personal identity, and pursue achievement above all else. This has resulted in ‘social starvation at a societal level.’ An excellent analysis.”—Derek Thompson, bestselling author, contributing writer at The Atlantic, and host of the Plain English podcast

“With a wealth of data and deft touch of a highly trained social scientist, Daniel Cox describes in careful detail the social atomization of modern America. But beyond that, he also offers a pathway forward that focuses on curiosity, kindness, and a real desire to cultivate community again. Generation Uncoupled is essential reading to understand how we got into this mess and what it will take to get us out of it.”—Ryan Burge, Professor of Practice, John C. Danforth Center on Religion and Politics at Washington University

“Part investigation, part call-to-action, the book makes the case that closing the widening gap between young men and women requires not just better tools, but a shared vocabulary for understanding each other. An essential read for parents, teachers, and community leaders who want to become more effective advocates for the young people in their lives.”—Anna Goldfarb, author of Modern Friendship

“The history of humanity has been one of people coming together, creating families, and shaping the next generation. How did we get to a place where young people are turning away from that project? From the political divides disrupting dating lives, the cultural expectations weighing on parents, and the technologies warping our sense of reality, Daniel Cox examines how we arrived here and what it might take to fix it.”—Kristen Soltis Anderson, founding partner of Echelon Insights and author of The Selfie Vote
“This beautifully written book helped me understand my divided generation, and reminded me that the bravest, most countercultural step we can take is to come together.”—Freya India, author of GIRLS