Dear Alyne, Alyne Tamir
Dear Alyne, Alyne Tamir
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Dear Alyne
My Years as a Married Virgin

Author: Alyne Tamir

Narrator: Alyne Tamir

Unabridged: 9 hr 47 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: HarperOne

Published: 06/10/2025


Synopsis

From world traveler, entrepreneur, and content creator @DearAlyne, a vulnerable and hilarious memoir of how she escaped the restrictive expectations of her family and faith and found herself in the process.Alyne Tamir was raised to live her life for others: for her husband, her family, and the Mormon church. For twenty-five years, she put them ahead of herself, repressing things that didn’t fit the neat, traditional story that had been written for her. On the surface, her life seemed picture-perfect. But in reality, Alyne was miserable, struggling to reconcile her flawless image with the pain and humiliation of abuse, an eating disorder, infidelity, and depression.Until Alyne reached a breaking point: the day her husband asked for a divorce—over email. Thank God! Or, not God. Finally free from the expectations of her family and faith, Alyne had to start a new life, which meant rediscovering herself and what she secretly wanted all along: the liberating life of a digital nomad.In a singular voice brimming with honesty and humor, Alyne invites us on a journey of strength and self-discovery—with a little bit of irreverence along the way. Dear Alyne is a one-of-a-kind, coming-of-age story and a testament to the limitless possibilities that await those brave enough to defy convention.

About Alyne Tamir

Alyne Tamir was raised between Los Angeles and Israel, Mormonism and Judaism, and was a divorcée by age 25. She dreamed of seeing the world, so she became a content creator with over four million followers, which allowed her to visit ninety-eight countries to date. Now she is the Founder of Nou Nou boutique wellness retreats and hotels in the Maldives and travels the globe, empowering others to explore their inner selves and expand their worlds.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Allie on July 04, 2025

It is hard to find anything that references the “too far” side of teaching about purity - the absolute terror of sex and fear that it is the worst thing any person could ever do…until you’re married and then it’s REQUIRED AND FUN. Reading Alyne’s experience through the Mormon church and the emphasis......more

Goodreads review by Abby on June 25, 2025

4.0 stars! I listened to this book on my commutes and honestly? It made me excited to get in the car (which says a lot). I’ve been following Alyne since about 2017 and loved getting a deeper, unfiltered look into her life, especially all the messy, honest, very real stuff that doesn’t make it to Ins......more

Goodreads review by Anna on July 26, 2025

This is the best book I’ve read in a long time. From the very first page, I was hooked. Alyne is hilarious, sharp, and wickedly smart — but what truly blew me away is her raw, unfiltered vulnerability. She says the things most of us are too afraid to even admit to ourselves. I genuinely laughed out lo......more

Goodreads review by Mhughessc on January 13, 2025

Alyne Tamir is a content creator who has now authored the book, "Dear Alyne: My Years as a Married Virgin." In this book, Tamir details her childhood in which she goes through her parents' divorce and then her mother's growing obsession with the Mormon church. As a result, her father returns to his......more

Goodreads review by Simara on June 16, 2025

Alyne’s story is a story of religious trauma, overcoming it and finding yourself. I found it fascinating since my knowledge of Mormonism is close to none. The effects of religion in women can be pretty harsh. Overcoming that message of purity and living a certain way all your formative years has a l......more