Bad Friend, Tiffany Watt Smith
Bad Friend, Tiffany Watt Smith
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Bad Friend
How Women Revolutionized Modern Friendship

Author: Tiffany Watt Smith

Narrator: Tiffany Watt Smith

Unabridged: 9 hr 15 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 05/06/2025


Synopsis

This smart and thought-provoking memoir, history, and cultural critique about the turmoil and complexity of female friendship is read by the author.

"Smith's gift for journalistic narrative...will make a lot of listeners hear it in a more personal way" —AudioFile on The Book of Human Emotions

Our culture today is inundated with narratives about the strength of female friendship, whether through images of girl power, BFFs, or work wives. Yet cultural historian Tiffany Watt Smith has always found her own life much messier. She has had dramatic friend breakups, friendships that felt like too much or not enough, friendships that drifted into silence, and friendships built on convenience rather than a meeting of minds. And there are older cultural scripts to contend with: the competitive rival, the jealous backstabber, the underminer, the fair-weather friend.

We have all been bad friends. It’s impossible to be a perfect one; as Watt Smith points out, women’s friendships have long been magnified, scrutinized, praised, and admonished, creating a legacy of impossible ideals. In Bad Friend, Watt Smith reflects on her own experience and thoroughly mines the rich cultural history of female friendship to look for a new paradigm that might encompass the struggles along with the joy.

A Macmillan Audio production from Celadon Books.

About Tiffany Watt Smith

Tiffany Watt Smith is a cultural historian and author of The Book of Human Emotions and Schadenfreude. Her TED Talk, “The History of Human Emotions,” has been viewed more than 4.5 million times. She is associate professor (emerita) of cultural history at Queen Mary University of London, where she ran the Centre for the History of the Emotions. Her academic research has been supported by numerous awards and prizes, including from Wellcome Trust, the British Academy, and as a recipient of the distinguished Philip Leverhulme Prize in 2018. She is a BBC New Generation Thinker and in 2024 was elected a Fellow of the Royal Historical Society.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Sarah on May 01, 2025

I was really excited to get my hands on Bad Friend—the premise sounded right up my alley. I was expecting a deep, insightful dive into the complexities of friendship, laced with history, psychology, and personal narrative. And while the book does offer all of those elements, the way they were presen......more

Goodreads review by Madison ✨ on April 29, 2025

I think the way this was laid out just didn't work well for me. I couldn't really get into it because I just didn't get it. I have been looking for a book that analyzes female friendships that match with my experiences, and I thought this one would do it. But this book starts with a lot of stories,......more

Goodreads review by Laura on May 14, 2025

Bad Friend was not quite what I expected, but there were chapters I enjoyed and learned from. The final chapters were especially interesting in how for centuries women have bonded in friendship to raise children, provide support in a health crisis, and support each other when social or familial help......more

Goodreads review by Kailee on May 09, 2025

I had a fantastic time listening to this book and learning about how women's friendships have evolved through the centuries, particularly the parts about how men tried to dictate our friendships and claim we were "bad" at friendship. This book is wonderful for learning the struggles fought by the wo......more

Goodreads review by Ashton on April 16, 2025

Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for this ARC. I think this was more of a three star for me but I jumped it up to four because I thought it was really well researched and written. Overall though I found the tone to be sad? Maybe I have an idealized vision of friendship but I certainly have a dif......more


Quotes

"Cultural historian Smith explores fraught relationships between women in this insightful blend of memoir and history... a moving and incisive analysis of an oft-discussed subject."
—Publishers Weekly