Who We Used to Be, Caitlin Weaver
Who We Used to Be, Caitlin Weaver
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Who We Used to Be

Author: Caitlin Weaver

Narrator: Madeline Pell

Unabridged: 11 hr 54 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 07/29/2025


Synopsis

What if the person you trust the most did something you can’t forgive?Dana Blair has spent her life letting others take the wheel, from her relationship with her husband to her business. Now, with her marriage unraveling, her son in crisis, and her career on the verge of collapse, Dana is left wondering whether she ever really had control of anything at all.Padma Paulsen is the opposite: a brilliant, fiercely driven ER doctor who’s given her all to her career. Her friendship with Dana has been the one constant in her high-pressure life.But then a tragedy on Padma’s watch leaves Dana’s daughter in critical condition and their bond in tatters.As Dana fights for justice for her daughter, grief turns to blame. Soon she’s forced to make a decision that could either save her family or destroy the most important friendship of her life.Who We Used to Be is a powerful story about the ties that hold us together, the pain that can pull us apart, and the courage it takes to find your way back—to yourself and the people who matter most. Perfect for fans of Sally Hepworth, Laura Dave and Liane Moriarty.Readers love Caitlin Weaver’s books:‘The BEST BOOK I read so far in 2024! I literally could NOT put it down! FANTASTIC… I cried soooo hard at the end.’ Reader review, ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐‘Wow, this was an emotional rollercoaster of a read!’ Reader review, ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐‘Can I give this book 10 stars? An absolute must-read.’ Reader review, ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐‘I stayed up WAY too late finishing this one… a FANTASTIC story… As a mom this one tugged at every single heartstring. Wow! Just pure wow!’ Reader review, ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐‘Wow! THIS is the kind of book I crave! One of the best I’ve read this year… A heart-breaking, thought-provoking read that fans of Jodi Picoult will love.’ Reader review, ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐‘I was hooked right from the start and could not put this down… my heart broke again and again.’ Reader review, ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐‘I can’t put into words how much I loved this story… the ending made me cry. Amazing.’ Reader review, ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐‘I couldn’t tear my eyes from the page. Loved it!! It was drama, truth, heartfelt and immersive.’ Reader review, ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐‘I was on the edge of my seat the whole time. Such an emotionally gripping and suspenseful story.’ Reader review, ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

About Caitlin Weaver

Caitlin Weaver is the author of emotional, page-turning women’s fiction. Her stories explore the ripple effects of decisions that are not black or white, and the pressures of modern family life. In addition to her novels, Caitlin writes for national publications including Insider, Well+Good, HuffPost, and Scary Mommy, among others. Caitlin lives in Atlanta with her husband and two young children. When not writing you can find her playing tennis, struggling with the NYT crossword puzzle, or reading “just one more” story to her kids.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Suzy on September 15, 2025

2 stars! ⭐️⭐️ OUTLIER ALERT! 🏝️ I usually love Caitlin Weaver books, so it pains me to write a two star review for this one. Dana and Padma are best friends and neighbors. Their daughters are best friends. Dana’s life is in shambles due to the dwindling sales in her gift shop and her marital stress. P......more

Goodreads review by Laura on August 11, 2025

MY GOODNESS WHAT A CONUNDRUM!!! Ms Weaver is back again with another tale that is going to have you throughout thinking “what would I do?”. In Who We Used to be we are following best friends Dana and Padma who have an unbreakable friendship but when tragedy strikes on Dana’s daughter under Padma’s wa......more

Goodreads review by NZLisaM on August 07, 2025

Some mistakes are unforgivable! Best friends and next-door neighbours, Dana Blair and Padma Paulsen have shared and supported one another in everything, and have the quiet comfort of knowing someone is always there. And to their delight their daughters, Izzy and Maeve, have grown up more like sisters......more

Goodreads review by Stephanie on July 26, 2025

I absolutely inhaled this book. This is the second Caitlin Weaver novel I’ve read and I’m officially a fan. She writes such multifaceted ,nuanced, and complicated stories of motherhood and adulthood. Her books are layered in the most delicious ways- and at the heart lies the question “what if this h......more

Goodreads review by Ana on July 27, 2025

4.5 ⭐️ Some books just grab you and don't let go. Who We Used to Be by Caitlin Weaver is absolutely one of them. This story of Padma and Dana, two friends whose daughters are inseparable, delves deep into the complexities of motherhood, friendship, and the unimaginable choices we face when life throw......more