When She Comes Back, Ronit Plank
When She Comes Back, Ronit Plank
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When She Comes Back

Author: Ronit Plank

Narrator: Ronit Plank

Unabridged: 6 hr 31 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Motina Books

Published: 05/11/2021


Synopsis

Abandoned By Her MotherRonit was six years old when her mother left her and her four year old sister for India to follow a cult guru. Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh, whose commune was responsible for the largest biological attack on U.S. soil, preached that children were hindrances and encouraged sterilizations among his followers. Luckily Ronit's father, who'd left the family the previous year, stepped up and brought the girls to live with him first in Newark, New Jersey, and later in Flushing, Queens. On the surface, his nurturing was the balm Ronit sought, but she soon paid a second emotional price, taking on the role of partner and confidant to him, and substitute mother to her sister. By the end of her childhood, Ronit would discover she had lost her mother and the close and trusting relationship she once had with her father. Though they have had a relationship now for years, she grappled with the toll her mother's leaving took, measuring her self-worth by her absence.When She Comes Back is the story of a family trying to find itself, grownups who don't know how to be adults, and the pain a child feels when she discovers that her love for her mother is not enough to make that parent stay. When She Comes Back is also a story of resilience and reconciliation, how rejection by the most important person in Ronit's life ultimately led to an unflagging commitment to, and love for her own children.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Keema on May 10, 2021

“When She Comes Back” is a riveting coming-of-age memoir about a family that doesn’t quite know how to belong to itself. I was entirely drawn in by young Ronit as she struggled to make sense of the adults in her world. Ronit’s mother, a seeker who feels lost in motherhood and chooses to settle into......more

Goodreads review by Becky on May 09, 2021

I could not put this book down. Having recently binged on the docu-series, Wild, Wild Country, which expands on the guru who the author's mother followed, I was left wondering about where all the children were. Had they been left? They certainly weren't seen. When I made the connection between the s......more

Goodreads review by Ashleigh on May 03, 2021

Our experiences in childhood have the potential to mold us forever. In this remarkable debut, Ronit Plank shapes the reader’s understanding of abandonment, growing up too fast, and ultimately, how working through these challenges laid the foundation for love in her own family.......more

Goodreads review by Missy on March 15, 2021

Ms. Plank has bravely mosaicked her incredible story of childhood and her loss. Her memoir is vivid, complex and captivating taking us through her mothers choices. From her joining a cult, leaving her daughters and the consequences that shape the author, her sister, and her father. I found myself em......more

Goodreads review by Meg on February 26, 2021

It takes courage to open yourself up and share your heartaches and disappointments. It takes more courage to work through them and come to a place of relative acceptance and understanding. That's the journey Ronit takes her readers on in her memoir. Ronit shows us the challenges of being a parent, o......more