What Remains?, Rupert Callender
What Remains?, Rupert Callender
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What Remains?
Life, Death and the Human Art of Undertaking

Author: Rupert Callender

Narrator: Rupert Callender

Unabridged: 10 hr 22 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Chelsea Green

Published: 03/14/2023


Synopsis

When he became an undertaker, Rupert Callender undertook to deal with the dead for the sake of the living. This book is his brilliant, unforgettable story—the life and work of the world’s ?rst punk undertaker—but it's also about ordinary, everyday humanity and our capacity to face death with courage and compassion, to say goodbye to the people we love in our own way. In becoming the world’s first “punk undertaker” and establishing the Green Funeral Company in Devon, UK, Ru Callender and his partner Claire challenged the stilted, structured world of the funeral industry—fusing what he had learned from his own deeply personal experiences with death with the surprising and profound answers and raw emotion he discovered in rave culture and ritual magick. From his unresolved grief for his parents and his cultural ancestors to political and religious non-conformists, social outlaws, experimental pioneers, and acid-house culture, Ru Callender has taken to a “DIY” ethos to help people navigate grief. He has carried coffins across windswept beaches, sat in pubs with caskets on beer-stained tables, helped children fire flaming arrows into their father’s funeral pyre, turned occult rituals into performance art, and, with the band members of KLF, is building the People’s Pyramid of bony bricks in Liverpool. What Remains? is a profound, deeply moving, and politically charged book that will change the way listeners think about life, death, and the all-important end-of–life experience.

About Rupert Callender

Rupert Callender was moved to become an undertaker through his experience of bereavement and its aftermath. He spent much of his childhood in the hospice where his mother worked, and the caring, humanistic philosophy of hospice remains central to his work. He opened the Green Funeral Company with his partner Claire in 2000. In 2012, they won Best Funeral Director at the Good Funeral Awards and were described as "The best undertakers of all time" by Good Funeral Guide author Charles Cowling.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Rainbow Goth on October 28, 2024

This book turned out to be quite different from what I initially anticipated. While there were sections I genuinely appreciated, others left me feeling dissatisfied. The author bravely tackles deeply personal and sometimes uncomfortable subjects, particularly his own tumultuous relationship with deat......more

Goodreads review by Jules on December 11, 2022

If I’d not listened to this on audio, I probably wouldn’t have finished it. Reading it as a physical book, I’ve no doubt I’d have given up on it within the first chapter or two. The book is read by the author himself, who I found unlikeable, appears bitter for his upbringing (which sounds like it wa......more

Goodreads review by Lilithcarter on November 12, 2022

I received this book from Netgally in exchange for an honest review. Please have a look at the blurb of this one as here are my thoughts only. Earlier this year Queen Elizabeth II died and me, as many other people around the globe, whiteness how a funeral works here in the UK, (Im not British and I wa......more

Goodreads review by Peter on September 13, 2022

This is my second undertaker / funeral director memoir - and it seems that as long as you can describe yourself as alternative or counterculture, there is plenty of mileage in the genre. What Remains? is very British, and the life and the rebellion contained within are themselves very British too (v......more


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Part memoir, part rant against the traditional funeral business, part manifesto, part just musing on death and facing it with compassion and courage. It’s lovely and thoughtful and may make you rethink a few things.