Well, This Is Exhausting, Sophia Benoit
Well, This Is Exhausting, Sophia Benoit
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Well, This Is Exhausting
Essays

Author: Sophia Benoit

Narrator: Sophia Benoit

Unabridged: 8 hr 7 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 07/13/2021


Synopsis

From Bustle columnist and host of None of My Business Sophia Benoit, this “charming and often laugh-out-loud funny” (Vogue) memoir-in-essays explores the ins and outs of modern womanhood—from finding feminism, the power of pop culture, and how to navigate life’s constant double standards—perfect for fans of Fleabag and eldest daughters everywhere.

Like so many women, Sophia spent her formative years struggling to do the “right” thing—to make others comfortable, to take minimal and calculated risks, to live up to society’s expectations—only to realize that there was so little payoff to this tiresome balancing act. Tired of trying so hard, Sophia finally let go of the crushing pressure to be perfect.

She navigates the highs and lows of the dating world (high: being a beta tester for Bumble; low: hastily shaving her legs before a hotel hookup and getting blood all over the sheets), and walks the line between being a “chill” girl and making sure her boyfriend’s nonchalance about altitude sickness doesn’t get him killed. She learns what it means to be a feminist, how to embrace her own voice, and when to listen to women who have been through more and have been doing the work longer.

With topics ranging from how to be the life of the party (even when you have crippling anxiety), to an ill-fated consultation with a dietician who deemed Sophia’s overindulgence in ketchup a serious health risk, to a masterful argument for why no one should judge you for having an encyclopedic knowledge of reality TV, Well, This Is Exhausting is not only “one of the funniest books you’ll read this year, but it’s also one of the most important” (Shondaland).

About Sophia Benoit

Sophia Benoit is a writer and comedian who grew up in Missouri and was correctly voted “Most Likely to Never Come Back.” She writes sex and relationship advice for Bustle and GQ and has had bylines in AllureRefinery29The CutThe Guardian, and more. Sophia does not have an MFA from anywhere, and probably isn’t going back to grad school, much to the chagrin of her father. She lives in Los Angeles with her boyfriend Dave, but usually only spouses make it into author bios, so forget about him.


Reviews

Goodreads review by David

I received a free copy of the book because I am the author's boyfriend. Sophia asked me to tell her what I really think of the book so here I am on Goodreads, making sure her next book doesn't include a chapter on how her accursed, no-good, malicious boyfriend refused to review her first one. This is......more

This is such a terrible memoir. I don't even really know where to start. At first I hoped because she is classified as a comedian perhaps this is a satire or laugh at myself sort of book. It's just irksome how she dismisses casual sex, eating disorders and low self image as a right of passage for wo......more

*Shoutout to Gallery Books for sending me an ARC of this book to review!* I feel like I would’ve gotten on with this book better overall if I knew of the author before reading it, because it didn’t seem to interest me as much as I wanted it to. While it starts off somewhat painfully relatable and fun......more