Troubled, Rob Henderson
Troubled, Rob Henderson
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Troubled
A Memoir of Foster Care, Family, and Social Class

Author: Rob Henderson

Narrator: Rob Henderson

Unabridged: 7 hr 49 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 02/20/2024


Synopsis

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One of The Economist’s Best Books of the Year!

In this “affecting…intriguing…heartbreaking” (Booklist) coming-of-age memoir, Rob Henderson vividly recounts growing up in foster care, enlisting in the US Air Force, attending elite universities, and pioneering the concept of “luxury beliefs”—ideas and opinions that confer status on the upper class while inflicting costs on the less fortunate.

Rob Henderson was born to a drug-addicted mother and a father he never met, ultimately shuttling between ten different foster homes in California. When he was adopted into a loving family, he hoped that life would finally be stable and safe. But divorce, tragedy, poverty, and violence marked his adolescent and teen years, propelling Henderson to join the military upon completing high school.

A “vivid, insightful, poignant, and powerful” (Nicholas A. Christakis, author of Blueprint) portrait of shattered families, desperation, and determination, Troubled recounts Henderson’s expectation-defying young life and juxtaposes his story with those of his friends who wound up incarcerated or killed.

As he navigates the peaks and valleys of social class, Henderson finds that he remains on the outside looking in. His greatest achievements—a military career, an undergraduate education from Yale, a PhD from Cambridge—feel like hollow measures of success. He argues that stability at home is more important than external accomplishments, and he illustrates the ways the most privileged among us benefit from a set of social standards that actively harm the most vulnerable.

About Rob Henderson

Rob Henderson grew up in foster homes in Los Angeles and the rural town of Red Bluff, California. He joined the US Air Force at the age of seventeen. Once described as “self-made” by The New York Times, Rob subsequently received a BS from Yale University and a PhD in psychology from St. Catharine’s College, Cambridge. His writing has appeared in The New York TimesThe Wall Street JournalThe Boston Globe, and more. His weekly newsletter is sent to more than fifty thousand subscribers. Learn more at RobKHenderson.com.  


Reviews

Goodreads review by Ben

In Troubled: A Memoir of Foster Care, Family, and Social Class, Rob Henderson explores the many lives he has lived. From his experiences growing up in a working class foster family to the absurdities and contradictions he encountered among the millionaire progressive class during his time at Yale an......more

Goodreads review by Velvet

Normally I prefer memoirs that are strictly story. If there’s citations, I don’t want it. So surprisingly, I was hooked on this. While roughly the last third is more commentary than story-telling, it’s fascinating to see the way Henderson’s experiences and realizations growing up have shaped his cur......more

Goodreads review by Adam

Rob insightfully weaves together the perspectives of an innocent child, an impulsive adolescent, a disciplined service member, a curious psychologist, and the unique troubles and triumphs of them all. This book will make you feel, think, and hopefully, promote the societal values which manifest chil......more