Transcending PostInfidelity Stress D..., Dennis C. Ortman
Transcending PostInfidelity Stress D..., Dennis C. Ortman
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Transcending Post-Infidelity Stress Disorder
The Six Stages of Healing

Author: Dennis C. Ortman

Narrator: Lyle Blaker

Unabridged: 10 hr 11 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 04/22/2025


Synopsis

Have you been traumatized by infidelity?
 
The phrase "broken heart" belies the real trauma behind the all-too-common occurrence of infidelity. Psychologist Dennis Ortman likens the psychological aftermath of sexual betrayal to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in its origin and symptoms, including anxiety, irritability, rage, emotional numbing, and flashbacks. Using PTSD treatment as a model, Dr. Ortman will show you, step by step, how to:
 
• work through conflicting emotions
• Understand yourself and your partner
• Make important life decisions
 
Dr. Ortman sees recovery as a spiritual journey and draws on the wisdom of diverse faiths, from Christianity to Buddhism. He also offers exercises to deepen recovery,  such as guided meditations and journaling, and explores heart-wrenchingly familiar case studies of couples struggling with monogamy. By the end of this book, you will have completed the six stages of healing and emerged with a whole heart, a full spirit, and the freedom to love again.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Mary on May 17, 2016

There are some great insights in this book but you have to trawl to find them. Firstly, it is good to have the experience of being betrayed up-front and in constant focus. That some individuals are traumatised by their partner's betrayal is fully explored and is in fact the background to the title o......more

Goodreads review by Courtney on June 05, 2024

I hope you never have to read this book, but if you find yourself here, know you are not alone. I read this slowly. My therapist suggested I not read ahead but just read one chapter every two weeks, and we would discuss the chapter in our sessions. I’m glad I took this approach. While the reader in......more

Goodreads review by Nicole on July 15, 2024

I thought this would be a scientific based book by a therapist. Instead it was a book by an ex catholic priest who also does Christian based therapy. The author did not market his book correctly at all. The title or cover should include that this book is based in Christianity so it reaches the corre......more

Goodreads review by Amanda on December 16, 2024

The second half of this book is where there is some good and helpful advice, however I would never recommend this to one of my clients (I’m an LPC) be they Christian or otherwise. The first section seems more of a detriment than anything, especially the section on “men and women” and “vulnerable to......more

Goodreads review by Chasity on January 28, 2018

Good but very heavy on childhood There were definitely some gems and aha moments in this book. Some situations seemed very simplistic and related back to childhood mistreatment of some type. I’m not sure every case if infidelity stems from childhood neglect but I do understand the pattern of emotion......more


Quotes

Of all the books on infidelity, this is the first that pegs the aftermath, accurately in my view, as a trauma that results in a "stress disorder" with a clear plan for healing. Insightful and helpful. --Harville Hendrix, PhD, author of Getting the Love You Want
 
Dennis Ortman writes with generosity and grace about a very difficult topic. This book is honest, compassionate, and clinically smart; his strong spiritual message makes the subject of infidelity far more hopeful and humane. --Pat Love, EdD, author of The Truth About Love
 
Dr. Ortman is right on in calling an infidelity a trauma. By uniting the wisdom of Western psychology with East-West spiritual traditions, he offers rich, practical guidance and hope. --Janis Abrahms Spring, PhD, author of After the Affair and How Can I Forgive You?