The Elephant in the Room, Tommy Tomlinson
The Elephant in the Room, Tommy Tomlinson
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The Elephant in the Room
One Fat Man's Quest to Get Smaller in a Growing America

Author: Tommy Tomlinson

Narrator: Tommy Tomlinson

Unabridged: 7 hr 25 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 01/15/2019


Synopsis

ONE OF NPR’S BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR

A “warm, funny, and honest…genuinely unputdownable” memoir (Curtis Sittenfeld) chronicling what it’s like to live in today’s world as a fat man. Journalist Tommy Tomlinson, approaching fifty and weighing 460 pounds, decided to confront the risks and realities of living in a body at war with itself.

At risk for heart disease, diabetes, and stroke—and unable to climb stairs or fly without two seats—Tomlinson had long lived in denial. Raised in a food-loving Southern family, he tried countless diets, saw doctors, wore Fitbits—none of it stuck. Until he decided it was time to truly change.

In The Elephant in the Room, Tomlinson recounts his journey with wit, grit, and searing honesty. His voice combines the emotional urgency of Roxane Gay’s Hunger with the personal intimacy of Rick Bragg’s All Over but the Shoutin’. From his own habits to America’s obesity epidemic, from shame and overeating to resilience and accountability, he explores how weight shapes our relationships with food, our bodies, and ourselves.

By confronting his compulsions and unhealthy patterns, Tomlinson doesn’t just aim to lose weight—he reclaims his life. This powerful addiction memoir and wellness journey offers inspiration to anyone navigating body image, self-esteem, or personal transformation.

About Tommy Tomlinson

Tommy Tomlinson is the author of The Elephant in the Room, a memoir about being overweight in America. He’s the host of the podcast SouthBound in partnership with WFAE, Charlotte’s NPR station. He has written for publications including EsquireESPN the MagazineSports IllustratedForbesGarden & Gun, and many others. He spent twenty-three years as a reporter and local columnist for the Charlotte Observer, where he was a finalist for the 2005 Pulitzer Prize in commentary. His stories have been chosen twice for the Best American Sports Writing series (2012 and 2015) and he also appears in the anthology America’s Best Newspaper Writing. He teaches magazine writing at Wake Forest University and has taught at colleges, workshops, and conferences across the country. He also has a Substack called The Writing Shed. Tommy and his wife, Alix Felsing, live in Charlotte with Alix’s mom and a cat.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Jennifer ~ TarHeelReader on February 17, 2019

The Elephant in the Room was recommended by my Goodreads friend, Dita. I knew once I read her thoughts I had to read this book, too. Tommy Tomlinson is candid and authentic in his memoir about his weight loss challenges. He shares his weight of 460 pounds and the health difficulties that go along wi......more

Goodreads review by JanB on September 05, 2023

Well-done Mr. Tomlinson. I know you struggle with feelings of being “less-than” due to your weight, but after reading your book I can tell that you are a fine human being, and if I knew you in real life, you’re someone I would like to call a friend. Recommended by Meredith on the ‘Currently Reading’......more

Goodreads review by Theresa on November 02, 2018

Elephant in the Room is journalist Tommy Tomlinson’s memoir of growing up fat and how, as an adult, he got to 460 pounds. He had a wife who loved him and a successful career, but the allure of fast food and vending machine or gas station junk food was a siren song so strong, he had to give up doing......more

Goodreads review by Mara on January 03, 2019

I appreciate greatly that these kinds of stories are being told. With rates of overweight and obesity on the rise, it is well past time that voices of fat people given a microphone to reflect on their own experiences (rather than narratives imposed on them) and taken seriously beyond the usual hand......more

Goodreads review by Truman32 on February 17, 2019

Tommy Tomlinson’s The Elephant in the Room is the true-life love story between a man and his cheeseburger. And his biscuits and gravy. And his banana pudding. And something glorious called peanut butter logs. It’s the classic boy meets delicious greasy high-calorie snack story. Ultimately this passi......more