The Cost of Control, Sharon Hodde Miller
The Cost of Control, Sharon Hodde Miller
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The Cost of Control
Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises

Author: Sharon Hodde Miller

Narrator: Rosemary Benson

Unabridged: 2 hr 32 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 08/16/2022


Synopsis

We all wish we had more control. When our relationships are strained, when our bodies refuse to cooperate, when the future is uncertain, control promises security and peace. If only I were in charge, we dream. And this illusion seems more attainable than ever. Technology, science, medicine, and the internet all promise us ever-increasing mastery over our world.

The problem is, control is a "devil's deal." The more we seek it, the more it betrays us. In place of predictability, it gives us anxiety. In place of certainty, it creates more complexity. And in place of unity, it divides. It's not just that we cannot control things; it's that we break them even more when we try.

Thankfully the answer to our craving is not simply to "let go and let God." When our kids aren't listening, when our loved ones are self-destructing, or when our health is declining, we don't have to scramble after control, nor do we have to throw up our hands. Instead, God has given us a better tool.

In this culturally insightful and eye-opening book, Sharon Hodde Miller helps us discover the real power God has given us in Christ, to exercise influence over ourselves and our lives.

About Sharon Hodde Miller

Sharon Hodde Miller is teaching pastor at Bright City Church in Durham, North Carolina, which she cofounded with her husband, Ike. The author of Free of Me and Nice, Miller has blogged at SheWorships.com for over ten years, has been a regular contributor to Propel, Her.meneutics, and She Reads Truth, and has written for Relevant, Christianity Today, (in)courage, and many other publications and blogs. She lives with Ike and their three children in Durham, North Carolina.


Reviews

Goodreads review by K.J. on October 09, 2022

Sharon Hodde Miller is a master of cogent and compassionate communication. (And while this book is more squarely evangelical in language than I prefer, it’s full of solid wisdom.) The Cost of Control is a simple, clear book that sews together what Scripture has to say about control with the way cont......more

Goodreads review by Bailey on October 24, 2023

I enjoyed this book! If you are someone who struggles with control (as most of us are) I recommend reading. It really lays out the real impact of trying to control your life which was a bit of a wake-up call for me. My criticism would be that it doesn’t give a lot of practical solutions to the probl......more

Goodreads review by Hannah on July 30, 2023

A great read for anyone in any season…but especially great if you’re four weeks away from parenthood. 😜......more

Goodreads review by Kristi on May 15, 2023

I think I was expecting a different book... My desire for control issues were very different from the author's as she wrote about wanting to conform people's viewpoints to her own, money, power, etc. Whereas my anxiety comes more from wanting to control smaller things like being somewhere on time, w......more

Goodreads review by Rachel on November 30, 2022

WOW wow WOW. Just so timely and good and C O N V I C T I N G. Highly recommend for those of us who need guidance on surrendering control to the Lord and dethroning the idol of control in our life. Miller does an incredible job humbly sharing her journey and communicating truth in an easily digestibl......more