Tell Me How to Be, Neel Patel
Tell Me How to Be, Neel Patel
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Tell Me How to Be
A Novel

Author: Neel Patel

Narrator: Vikas Adam

Unabridged: 12 hr 34 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 12/07/2021


Synopsis

“Narrator Vikas Adam does an excellent job of balancing the angst- ridden Akash with the mourning Renu in this mother-and-son story of love and loss” – AudioFile Magazine

“A beautiful book about a mother and son…I really loved this book.”—Rumaan Alam on The TODAY Show

“My first great read of 2022…[Will] make you cringe with recognition and melt with longing.” —Jennifer Weiner

“This debut novel about an Indian-American family has all the right ingredients: family secrets, love, sexuality, loss, identity questions and remorse.” —Good Morning America

Renu Amin always seemed perfect. But as the one-year anniversary of her husband’s death approaches, she is binge-watching soap operas and simmering with old resentments. She can’t stop wondering if, thirty-five years ago, she chose the wrong life. In Los Angeles, her son, Akash, has everything he ever wanted, but he is haunted by the painful memories he fled a decade ago. When his mother tells him she is selling the family home, Akash returns to Illinois, hoping to finally say goodbye and move on.

Together, Renu and Akash pack up the house, retreating further into the secrets that stand between them. Renu sends an innocent Facebook message to the man she almost married, sparking an emotional affair that calls into question everything she thought she knew about herself. Akash slips back into bad habits as he confronts his darkest secrets—including what really happened between him and the first boy who broke his heart. When their pasts catch up to them, Renu and Akash must decide between the lives they left behind and the ones they’ve since created, between making each other happy and setting themselves free.

By turns irreverent and tender, filled with the beats of ’90s R&B, Tell Me How to Be is about our earliest betrayals and the cost of reconciliation. But most of all, it is the love story of a mother and son each trying to figure out how to be in the world.

A Macmillan Audio production from Flatiron Books

About Neel Patel

Neel Patel is a first-generation Indian American who grew up in Champaign, Illinois. His debut story collection, If You See Me, Don't Say Hi, was a New York Times Book Review Editor’s Choice and was long-listed for the Story Prize and the Aspen Words Literary Prize. He currently lives in Los Angeles. Tell Me How to Be is his debut novel.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Thomas

I loved this book so freaking much and have so much gratitude to Neel Patel for writing it. As a gay Asian American (gender-flexible) man I feel like I have waited forever for a book that centers a queer man of color that isn’t solely about that character’s queer trauma or his unhealthy relationship......more

Goodreads review by Doug

2.5, rounded up. Although I gave the author's debut short story collection 4 stars and was eager to see what he might accomplish in a longer format, for much of his debut novel I was antsy and at times considered DNF-ing it. Aside from the fact I found the alternating mother and son narrators both ra......more

Goodreads review by Anna

The book felt much longer than it actually is because of the slow progression and the mundane feeling all the unhappy characters radiated. Some of the chapters were completely pointless and added nothing to the story. The only character that had some development was Akash and I didn't even like him......more