Strangers to Ourselves, Rachel Aviv
Strangers to Ourselves, Rachel Aviv
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Strangers to Ourselves
Unsettled Minds and the Stories That Make Us

Author: Rachel Aviv

Narrator: Andi Arndt

Unabridged: 7 hr 41 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 09/13/2022


Synopsis

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The acclaimed, award-winning New Yorker writer Rachel Aviv offers a groundbreaking exploration of mental illness and the mind, and illuminates the startling connections between diagnosis and identity.

In Strangers to Ourselves, a powerful and gripping debut, Rachel Aviv raises fundamental questions about how we understand ourselves in periods of crisis and distress. Drawing on deep, original reporting as well as unpublished journals and memoirs, Aviv writes about people who have come up against the limits of psychiatric explanations for who they are. She follows an Indian woman, celebrated as a saint, who lives in healing temples in Kerala; an incarcerated mother vying for her children’s forgiveness after recovering from psychosis; a man who devotes his life to seeking revenge upon his psychoanalysts; and an affluent young woman who, after a decade of defining herself through her diagnosis, decides to go off her meds because she doesn’t know who she is without them. Animated by a profound sense of empathy, Aviv’s exploration is refracted through her own account of living in a hospital ward at the age of six and meeting a fellow patient with whom her life runs parallel—until it no longer does.

Aviv asks how the stories we tell about mental disorders shape their course in our lives. Challenging the way we understand and talk about illness, her account is a testament to the porousness and resilience of the mind.

About Rachel Aviv

Rachel Aviv is a staff writer at The New Yorker, where she writes about medicine, education, and criminal justice, among other subjects. In 2022, she won a National Magazine Award for Profile Writing. A 2019 national fellow at New America, she received a Whiting Creative Nonfiction Grant to support her work on this book. She lives in Brooklyn, New York.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Thomas

3.5 stars A sometimes interesting and sometimes not-too-interesting book that follows four people who struggle with mental illness, as well as the author’s experience of anorexia as a child. Starting with some of my perceived negatives before going into the positives, I thought that a couple sections......more

An astute, informative, tender-hearted balm for all the feckless social media conversations about mental health. It does seem that our current milieu is obsessed with mental illness labels. Labels can be helpful, for sure, and naming a previously perplexing set of symptoms can be empowering. Unfortu......more

Goodreads review by Meike

An excellent non-fiction debut about the connection between mental illness and (self) narration: How does the way patients and doctors talk about, frame and interpret psychological conditions affect our understanding and treatment of these medical phenomena? And Aviv is not only talking about stigma......more


Awards

  • The New York Times 10 Best Books of the Year
  • New York Times Book Review Notable Books of the Year
  • Vogue Magazine Best Books of the Year
  • Los Angeles Times Best Books of the Year
  • Kirkus Reviews Best Books of the Year
  • Los Angeles Times Holiday Books Guide
  • National Book Critics Circle Award - Nominee
  • Wall Street Journal Best Books of the Year
  • BookPage Best Books of the Year
  • New Yorker Best Books of the Year
  • Time Magazine Best Books of the Year
  • Washington Post Best Books of the Year