Not That Id Kiss A Girl, Lil OBrien
Not That Id Kiss A Girl, Lil OBrien
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Not That I'd Kiss A Girl
A Kiwi girl's tale of coming out and coming of age

Author: Lil O'Brien

Narrator: Lil O'Brien

Unabridged: 8 hr 55 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Lil Cameron

Published: 12/16/2025


Synopsis

Lil O'Brien accidentally outed herself to her parents at the age of nineteen when they overheard her talking to a friend about liking girls. Half an hour later she found herself on the side of the road, with instructions to come back and pick up her suitcase the next day.What follows is a heartbreaking yet hugely funny story of a young Kiwi girl - the deputy head girl from a posh private school - coming to grips with her sexuality in the face of stark disapproval from her parents.Bit by bit, Lil finds the inner strength to pull herself into an entirely new world. Along the way she's called out for looking too straight in a gay bar, tries to break in to the lesbian in-crowd and figures out how to send her internet lover back to America. She falls in lust over a knotted soccer shoelace, explores how the hell to have sex with a girl and dates four women at once - unsuccessfully.Lil's story is an insightful and honest look at how you figure out whether you're gay, bi or whatever - and deal with what comes next. It's an essential read for anyone who's had to fight for who they are and what they believe in.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Kt on October 01, 2020

5 stars but I’d give it 10 stars if I could Holiday reads are the best kind of reads and Not That I’d Kiss a Girl by Lil O’Brien is without a doubt one of the best books I’ve read in 2020, and is tied with When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi as my favourite non-fiction read of the year. Lil is n......more

Goodreads review by Jess on February 16, 2022

lol this book was too CLOSE TO HOME.......more

Goodreads review by Angela on February 20, 2021

Thank you Lil for writing this book. Insightful and well written. Your writing really draws us in as readers. Also I just want to give you a big Mum hug. ❤️......more

Goodreads review by Aimee on July 05, 2020

Wasn't quite sure how to rate this so I went generous. Immensely readable and the coming out/coming into your sexuality side of this was funny, honest and wonderful to read through a New Zealand lens. I just kind of felt there was something missing.......more

Goodreads review by Ruby on January 18, 2021

Reading this book is like having a really good D&M chat with one of your articulate and entertaining mates while you get on the wines in the bathroom at a house party.......more