Not Everyone is Going to Like You, Rinny Perkins
Not Everyone is Going to Like You, Rinny Perkins
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Not Everyone is Going to Like You
Thoughts From a Former People Pleaser

Author: Rinny Perkins

Narrator: Rinny Perkins

Unabridged: 1 hr 33 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 04/25/2023


Synopsis

A debut manifesto by Rinny Perkins (@RinnyRiot) about what she's learned as a queer Black woman through the art of self-validation.

In this collection of mini essays, comedian Rinny Perkins illustrates her experiences as the owner of a popular online shop while she figures out antidepressant prescriptions and the seemingly never-ending dating-app cycle.
 
Rinny shares what she's learned across topics like mental health, work, sex and dating, and family and friends. Featuring funny, real reflections from experiences in her hometown of (Third Ward!) Houston, Texas to Los Angeles — the author traces her journey to understanding that whether through a friendship break-up or saving up for a Telfar bag, the only person who can truly validate us is ourselves.
 
Not Everyone's Going to Like You is a long DM of affirmations from Rinny to herself on how to get through life. Her advice? Stop ignoring your intuition, ignore perfection, and leave them on read.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Karla on March 25, 2023

Fun, colorful, candid, and good advice!......more

Goodreads review by Talisa on January 16, 2024

Cute and quick read. Definitely reaffirms the ND life. People pleasing will only lead to an early grave. Love yourself and everything else follows.......more

Goodreads review by Rose on August 02, 2023

A friend sent me a copy of this book, claiming that one of his coworkers was distributing copies at the office because it was so transformational. I don't know about transformation--I don't feel like this book added much to ongoing conversations; it felt more like regurgitation of common pop psychol......more

Goodreads review by Emily on May 18, 2023

I needed this book 20 years ago but I'm grateful to read it now. The essays are thoughtful, succinct, and direct. The artwork is punchy and vibrant. Perkins is that voice you need when you doubt yourself. I highly recommend this mix of memoir, advice, and art......more

Goodreads review by Tabatha_Reads_Books on April 30, 2023

As the back cover says, a book written by the author on what she has learned through the art of self validation. I won this book through Good Reads giveaways, and I am really impressed with this book. This is a book that I wish I could have given my 16-18 year old self and said “Read this, learn it,......more