Ive Had to Think Up a Way to Survive..., Lynn Melnick
Ive Had to Think Up a Way to Survive..., Lynn Melnick
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I've Had to Think Up a Way to Survive
On Trauma, Persistence, and Dolly Parton

Author: Lynn Melnick

Narrator: Lynn Melnick

Unabridged: 7 hr 44 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 10/04/2022


Synopsis

A moving and essential exploration of what it takes to find your voice as a woman, a survivor, an artist, and an icon. 
The first time Lynn Melnick listened to a Dolly Parton song in full, she was 14 years old, in the triage room of a Los Angeles hospital, waiting to be admitted to a drug rehab program. Already in her young life as a Jewish teen in the 1980s, she had been the victim of rape, abuse, and trauma, and her path to healing would be long. But in Parton’s words and music, she recognized a fellow survivor.  
 
In this powerful, incisive work of social and self-exploration, Melnick blends personal essay with cultural criticism to explore Parton’s dual identities as a feminist icon and objectified sex symbol, identities that reflect the author’s own fraught history with rape culture and the arduous work of reclaiming her voice. Each chapter engages with the artistry and impact of one of Parton’s songs, as Melnick reckons with violence, misogyny, creativity, parenting, friendship, sex, love, and the consolations and cruelties of religion. Bold and inventive,
I’ve Had to Think Up a Way to Survive gives us an accessible and memorable framework for understanding our times and a revelatory account of survival, persistence, and self-discovery. 

Reviews

Goodreads review by Aaron on February 27, 2023

Frank and moving memoir by poet Lynn Melnick about survival, the healing powers of art, and just how kickass Dolly Parton is. I now want to make a playlist of the table of contents and read every book in this UT Austin series.......more

Goodreads review by Angie on January 26, 2023

Well. This was both easy and hard to read. Its a bit academic. It’s a LOT of music analysis. It’s Dolly Dolly Dolly. I am a huge fan of Dolly Parton. She is complicated, fantastical, and predictable. Until she isn’t. She emanates kindness. Her music transcends time. This is a story about how her musi......more

Goodreads review by Lisa on May 29, 2022

In a memoir brimming with beauty and pain and exquisite writing, Melnick weaves together her own experiences as a mother and a survivor with her love for (and incredible knowledge of) Dolly Parton's music and life story. Melnick deconstructs the lyrics and musical composition of Parton's songs, draw......more

Goodreads review by Christine on July 23, 2023

A book of essays that ties Dolly Parton songs into various themes on life, especially related to trauma and perseverance. Each chapter is a different Dolly song, allowing the reader to create their own playlist of sorts. Overall, I enjoyed this book. I do think there were chapters that were better t......more

Goodreads review by Jody on July 11, 2022

Lynn Melnick's writing is a true joy to read: her prose is eloquent, soulful, and intellectual. In I've Had to Think Up a Way to Survive, Melnick finds parallels between Dolly Parton's life and her own and in their shared experiences of sexual assault, trauma, and unfortunate life circumstances (or......more