It Wasnt Roaring, It Was Weeping, LisaJo Baker
It Wasnt Roaring, It Was Weeping, LisaJo Baker
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It Wasn't Roaring, It Was Weeping
Interpreting the Language of Our Fathers Without Repeating Their Stories

Author: Lisa-Jo Baker

Narrator: Lisa-Jo Baker

Unabridged: 8 hr 4 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 05/07/2024


Synopsis

An honest and lyrical coming-of-age memoir of growing up in South Africa at the height of apartheid, and an invitation to recognize and refuse to repeat the sins of our fathers—from the bestselling author of Never Unfriended

“Heartfelt, emotionally charged reflections . . . [a] bracing memoir.”—Kirkus Review

“Important. Riveting. Unforgettable . . . a profoundly captivating story that can profoundly change your own story.”—Ann Voskamp, New York Times bestselling author of WayMaker

Born White in the heart of Zululand during the racial apartheid, Lisa-Jo Baker longed to write a new future for her children—a longing that set her on a journey to understand where she fit into a story of violence and faith, history and race. Before marriage and motherhood, she came to the United States to study to become a human rights advocate. When she naïvely walked right into America’s own turbulent racial landscape, Baker experienced the kind of painful awakening that is both individual and universal, personal and social. Yet years would go by before she traced this American trauma back to her own South African past.

Baker was a teenager when her mother died of cancer, leaving her with her father. Though they shared a language of faith and justice, she often feared him, unaware that his fierce temper had deep roots in a family’s and a nation’s pain. Decades later, old wounds reopened when she found herself spiraling into a terrifying version of her father, screaming herself hoarse at her son. Only then did Baker realize that to go forward—to refuse to repeat the sins of our fathers—we must first go back.

With a story that stretches from South Africa’s outback to Washington, D.C., It Wasn’t Roaring, It Was Weeping is a courageous look at inherited hurts and prejudices, and a hope-filled example for all who feel lost in life or worried that they’re too off course to make the necessary corrections. Baker’s story shows that it’s never too late to be free.

About The Author

Lisa-Jo Baker is the bestselling author of Never Unfriended, Surprised by Motherhood, and The Middle Matters. A sought-after national speaker, her writings have resonated with thousands and have been featured on HuffPost Parents, BibleGateway, Fox News, Christianity Today, IF:Table, and more. She is the cohost of the Out of the Ordinary podcast.


Reviews

Goodreads review by PattyMacDotComma on July 08, 2024

4.5~4★ “This story is not a movie. It is not fiction. And in places it may be as painful for you to read as it was for me and others to live. I like to watch movie trailers because I want to be prepared for the story I’m about to step into. This one includes emotional, verbal, physical, and racial vi......more

Goodreads review by Shawn on February 05, 2024

One of the most beautiful books I’ve read in a long time.......more

Goodreads review by Tammy on November 06, 2024

Lisa-Jo Baker’s memoir swept me up and broke me in a thousand pieces. With her father’s blessing, she writes this tenderhearted, compelling novel of her own father-daughter relationship with him. She shares stories of his growing up with a prejudiced father, and about herself being born white in 197......more

Goodreads review by Elizabeth on June 13, 2024

The ratings are extremely high for this one and I can’t bring myself to rate it lower than 4 stars but I honestly didn’t love it. Content-wise, it’s great. I just got tired of the writing style that was so full of similes and metaphors, it almost didn’t make sense or just sounded silly sometimes. Li......more

Goodreads review by Rae on May 30, 2024

This book is stunning. Some parts were painful and hard to read, but Lisa Jo writes them with tenderness and frankness — a faithful witness to brokenness, but with dignity and not sensationalism like so many other writers have been prone to do. She is also a faithful witness to the redemption in her......more


Quotes

“Baker’s memoir is a soulful book that’s rife with tension and, like most fine books, shot through with mercy received.”—Christianity Today

“Using her father’s life as a point of departure, the South Africa–born author [Lisa-Jo Baker] offers heartfelt, emotionally charged reflections on their apartheid-riven homeland. . . . Throughout, Baker seeks to understand the many sins of both her homeland and her adopted land, and she makes a tender effort to forgive her father. . . . A painful, lyrical, and bracing memoir.”—Kirkus Review

“Poignant and searching, this leaves a mark.”Publishers Weekly

“Important. Riveting. Unforgettable. . . . A profoundly captivating story that can profoundly change your own story.”—Ann Voskamp, New York Times bestselling author of One Thousand Gifts and WayMaker

“Achingly personal yet transcendently and triumphantly human, It Wasn’t Roaring, It Was Weeping is unputdownable.”—Karen Swallow Prior, PhD, author of The Evangelical Imagination

“Lisa-Jo Baker’s story exemplifies how unpacking the pain from your past can catapult you into leaving a purpose-filled legacy. This is a vulnerable and courageous must-read.”—Jada Edwards, Bible teacher, speaker, author

“For everyone with imperfect pasts, this book is especially for us, written by one of us.”—Sean Dietrich, “Sean of the South,” syndicated columnist and author of Will the Circle Be Unbroken?

“I couldn’t put this book down. I was fascinated reading Baker’s story of her complex family and cultural heritage and deeply moved by her vulnerability.”—Jenny Marrs, co-host of HGTV’s Fixer to Fabulous and author of House + Love = Home

“This brave work reveals the profound healing that emerges when we dare to confront the most challenging parts of our stories with an open mind and a willing heart.”—Alison Cook, PhD, author of Boundaries for Your Soul

“Through the prose of a fabulously gifted writer, we are given access to her years growing up trying to make sense of South Africa during apartheid as well as the failings of a father she greatly respects.”—Katherine James, award-winning novelist, author of A Prayer for Orion

“For everyone yearning for home through challenging memories, this book will feel like a road map.”—Quantrilla Ard, “The PhD Mamma,” writer, speaker, and grief coach