How the Hell Did I Not Know That?, Lucie Frost
How the Hell Did I Not Know That?, Lucie Frost
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How the Hell Did I Not Know That?
My Midlife Year from Couch to Curiosity

Author: Lucie Frost

Narrator: Lucie Frost

Unabridged: 7 hr 7 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Lucie Frost

Published: 08/26/2025


Synopsis

After quitting her job with an awkward text to her boss, Lucie Frost planned to live out her early retirement fantasy. Except she was lost, an empty nester with no job, no structure, no identity, and no clear purpose. Everything changed after she binge-watched the television program 90 Day Fiancé one day, which led to a stream of answers to her question about midlife stagnation: What do we do with our lives when our jobs or children are no longer making those decisions for us?Her trivia-filled memoir, How the Hell Did I Not Know That?, follows the first year of Frost’s postretirement era, a year when curiosity pulled her off the couch and into a world where she discovered how to build a fulfilling life from the smallest of wonders—things like how to unboil an egg with urine (but why, oh why?), where the vice president of the United States lives (something we should know?), and why the sky is blue (wait, didn’t we learn that in third grade?).How the Hell Did I Not Know That? is a witty and honest companion, a girlfriend, if you will, for women in midlife who are struggling to find their place in the world, who are concerned about misogyny, climate change, and the industrial prison complex, just not while watching the latest episode of The Bachelor. Frost shows us that women “of a certain age” need to take themselves seriously while remembering to laugh at inappropriate things and that they can find meaning in life by relying on the power of curiosity.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Nel on August 29, 2025

I didn't realize how desperately I needed a book that brought a little humor into my life, and this one was just the ticket! Lucie Frost has penned a delightful memoir detailing her first year of retirement, which all kicked off with a hilariously drunken resignation text to her boss. It's a riotous......more

Goodreads review by Chris on June 24, 2025

Lucie's superb use of wit, humor, and creativity uses the most obscure trivia to share her journey reinventing herself as a retired professional. The sass makes her book funny, but it is her honesty about very personal moments throughout her life that make it most relatable. This unique style, inter......more

Goodreads review by Syndrie on August 11, 2025

Written as a unique mashup of factoids and memoir, "How the Hell Did I Not Know That" is a book that is hilarious, informational, a little inspirational, and charmingly eclectic. The premise here is simple: recently retired lawyer Lucie Frost has found herself lost in what to do now that she doesn't......more

Goodreads review by Birgit on June 17, 2025

Hilarious, smart, and sneakily profound Lucie Frost’s “How the Hell Did I Not Know That?” is part trivia deep-dive, part midlife memoir, and all charm. She turns everyday curiosity into a laugh-out-loud journey through science, pop culture, and self-discovery. If you’ve ever hit a life reset button......more

Goodreads review by Tom on June 06, 2025

I want more!! How the Hell Did I Not Know That made me laugh out loud several times. There’s nostalgia about so much. Lucie piques your curiosity, not only about the simple observations and inquiries she makes, but also about how the hell did she think of “that.” Her bright, witty, sarcastic, “persp......more