HighRisk Homosexual, Edgar Gomez
HighRisk Homosexual, Edgar Gomez
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High-Risk Homosexual
A Memoir

Author: Edgar Gomez

Narrator: Edgar Gomez

Unabridged: 6 hr 50 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Tantor Media

Published: 01/11/2022


Synopsis

"I've always found the definition of machismo to be ironic, considering that pride is a word almost unanimously associated with queer people, the enemy of machistas. In particular, effeminate queer men represent a simultaneous rejection and embrace of masculinity . . . In a world desperate to erase us, queer Latinx men must find ways to hold onto pride for survival, but excessive male pride is often what we are battling, both in ourselves and in others."

A debut memoir about coming of age as a gay, Latinx man, High-Risk Homosexual opens in the ultimate anti-gay space: Edgar Gomez's uncle's cockfighting ring in Nicaragua, where he was sent at thirteen years old to become a man. Listeners follow Gomez through the queer spaces where he learned to love being gay and Latinx, including Pulse Nightclub in Orlando, a drag queen convention in Los Angeles, and the doctor's office where he was diagnosed a "high-risk homosexual."

With vulnerability, humor, and quick-witted insights into racial, sexual, familial, and professional power dynamics, Gomez shares a hard-won path to taking pride in the parts of himself he was taught to keep hidden. His story is a scintillating, beautiful reminder of the importance of leaving space for joy.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Edgar on September 25, 2021

Giving this book five stars because I feel sorry for the author.......more

Goodreads review by Thomas on March 03, 2022

I liked this memoir about Edgar Gomez’s coming of age as a gay Latinx man. I felt that he showed us the effects of his growing up in a lower socioeconomic status as well as how he faced pressure to appear as more masculine and less flamboyant. He writes with honesty both about his struggles with fem......more

Goodreads review by Erik on May 21, 2022

Edgar Gomez bucks the trend of subpar queer memoirs with his unique and interesting voice in High-Risk Homosexual. Edgar was raised in Orlando, FL and struggled from a young age to suppress his femininity and fully embrace his sexuality. The book opens with young Edgar in Nicaragua visiting his uncle......more

Goodreads review by Christopher on September 16, 2021

Edgar Gomez is the chaotic queer hero we both need and deserve—with humor and charm, they tenderly lead us into night clubs, bathhouses, the backseats of cars with anonymous men, asking us to examine our current place in the world amongst the lonely and brokenhearted, the ones who dare live our true......more

Goodreads review by Alvin on February 01, 2022

Gomez has done the near-impossible: written a queer coming of age tale that feels entirely fresh and unique. Not only does their prose sparkle with the sort of deliciously dry wit that can't be bought or taught, it displays a level of insight highly unusual for such a young author.......more