First and Only, Jennifer R. Farmer
First and Only, Jennifer R. Farmer
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First and Only
A Black Woman's Guide to Thriving at Work and in Life

Author: Jennifer R. Farmer, Nina Turner

Narrator: Machelle Williams

Unabridged: 4 hr 27 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 11/09/2021


Synopsis

As Black women, we have to work twice as hard to be perceived as half as skilled. We have to work until August of this year to earn what a white man made by last December. We are besieged by racist and sexist bullying online. People feel free to touch and comment on our hair—and then ask us why we seem so angry.

First and Only is a guide for every woman who has found herself closing the cover on other leadership books that omit our true experiences and strengths. In this book, Jennifer R. Farmer helps listeners learn what is required for the long haul of liberation by providing a roadmap to on-the-job success, challenging systemic racism, and seeking inner healing through the power of faith. She offers practical strategies for Black women to thrive in workplaces that can be ambivalent about their success, as well as tips and stories from psychologists, activists, and organizational experts that equip Black women to lead others and heal past wounds.

The path for success for Black women includes a commitment to self-care, spiritual growth, and a willingness to push for progress. First and Only is not just about how to lean in, or how to discover the irrefutable laws of leadership. It's about how to heal so you can sustain work for justice and equity. It's about finding personal and social redemption—and leading others to find it too.

About Jennifer R. Farmer

Jennifer R. Farmer is a writer, trainer, and activist who has worked with a host of entrepreneurs, social justice organizations and advocates, and progressive faith-based leaders including Michael Render ("Killer Mike"), Bishop William J. Barber II, and Edgar Villanueva. Farmer is the founder of Spotlight PR LLC, which specializes in strategy and training for leaders and groups committed to racial justice, and is the author of Extraordinary PR, Ordinary Budget. Her work has appeared in Sojourners, The Root, LifeHack.org, HuffPost, and the Chronicle of Philanthropy, among others. She is the mother of two and lives in northern Virginia.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Peppur

"When people malign Black women as being angry, or problematic or 'too Black,' they do so because such narratives benefit them and permit them to access power." - Jennifer Farmer, First & Only, A Black Woman's Guide to Thriving at Work and in Life. Yesss! This book! THESE words! These are the words we......more

Goodreads review by Tamara

I really enjoyed this book. It gave good insight on work dynamics for Black women. It also reminded me that I'm not crazy when I think certain things about the people I work with. The author also refers to work by other Black people to show her points and state common feelings/issues among Black wom......more

Eyeopening I know Jennifer Farmer as the host of United Methodist Women's Faith Talks and respect her capable direction. Now I feel like I know Jennifer Farmer , the author , this book revealed her. Ms. Farmer has opened this white woman's eyes and shown me my complicity.......more

Goodreads review by Suzanne

Especially loved this book as president of an HBCU for women. It's like a manual for Black women's leadership & personal development. So many incredible lessons, prompts, thoughtful critiques & supports for our students & alumnae & Black women everywhere. Brava!......more