Find a Place for Me, Deirdre Fagan
Find a Place for Me, Deirdre Fagan
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Find a Place for Me

Author: Deirdre Fagan

Narrator: Jean Ann Douglass

Unabridged: 9 hr 21 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Scribd Audio

Published: 11/07/2023


Synopsis

Find a Place for Me is a memoir about facing a marriage’s last act—a spouse’s death—as a couple united in mind and holding hands. Deirdre and Bob are married eleven years and have two young children when forty-three-year-old Bob is diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS), also known as Lou Gehrig’s Disease. ALS determines the journey their marriage will now take, but Bob and Deirdre are resolute in how they will traverse their remaining months as a couple. Chronicling Bob’s illness, Find a Place for Me is also the love story of a happy marriage filled with humor, honesty, and essential conversations. In this moving, tragic, and surprisingly funny book, Deirdre and Bob raise a glass to the life each of them has left while learning how to lovingly say goodbye.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Martha on May 26, 2024

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Goodreads review by Maggie on April 25, 2022

The first time that I heard a version of this story was when I had the opportunity to hear Fagan read her poems “While Your Husband Is Still Able to Stand” and “Doorbell Advised” at an event. However, there is the story—and then there is The Story. Find a Place for Meis The Story. Early on in Find......more

Goodreads review by Kristin on July 04, 2022

When most people receive a terminal diagnosis, their focus becomes Death. They may be consumed with sadness, fear, regret. Not Bob. His sincere wish was to spend his final months living the best he could. His wife, Deirdre, accompanies him on this journey toward his end of life by helping him laugh,......more

Goodreads review by Lolly K Dandeneau on October 27, 2022

via my blog: [URL not allowed] 𝑾𝒂𝒍𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒏𝒖𝒎𝒃𝒍𝒚 𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒈𝒂𝒓𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒉𝒐𝒍𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝑩𝒐𝒃, 𝒐𝒏𝒍𝒚 𝒅𝒊𝒎𝒍𝒚 𝒂𝒘𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒎𝒚 𝒐𝒘𝒏 𝒃𝒐𝒅𝒚, 𝒘𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒈𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒍𝒐𝒏𝒈 𝒘𝒂𝒍𝒌 𝒕𝒐𝒘𝒂𝒓𝒅 𝑩𝒐𝒃’𝒔 𝒅𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒉 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒅𝒆𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒆 𝒇𝒓𝒐𝒎 𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒉 𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓. “Till death do us part” seems like an insignificant saying when you first......more

Goodreads review by Nate on April 22, 2023

I was understandably afraid to read this because I'm living with ALS myself, and I know how it ends. But the only tears I felt welling were from the touching relationship between Bob and Deirdre. More specifically, Bob's words of encouragement to Deirdre, building her up with the goal (his goal for......more