Dance Me to the End, Alison Acheson
Dance Me to the End, Alison Acheson
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Dance Me to the End
Ten Months and Ten Days with ALS

Author: Alison Acheson

Narrator: Ellen Dubin

Unabridged: 7 hr 22 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: ECW Press

Published: 05/30/2022


Synopsis

Marty, age 57, was given a preliminary diagnosis of ALS by his family doctor. Seven weeks later, the diagnosis was confirmed by a neurologist. Ten months and ten days later, Marty passed away.From day one, Alison, Marty’s spouse of over twenty-five years, kept a journal as a way to navigate the overwhelming state of her mind and soul. Soon the rawness of her words harmonized to tell the story of Marty’s diagnosis, illness, and decline. Her journal became a chronicle of caregiving as well as an emotional exploration of the tensions between the intuitive and the pragmatic, the logical and illogical, and the all-consuming demands of being both spouse and nurse. Divided into short pieces, some of which reads as free verse, Alison’s words are at times profoundly intense and painfully private.The composition of the intricate notes of a life in its final movements includes another stanza of the journal that became Dance Me to the End: the guiding of children grappling with the imminent loss of a parent, and the shifting roles of family, friends, and community—all of which add their own complex rhythms.Dance Me to the End is an evocative memoir about the emotional impact of witnessing a loved one suffer from a neurological, degenerative, and terminal disease. This is a detailed account of grief, shock and pain coexisting with the levity, laughter and love shared with her husband and sons in those final months of Marty's life.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Vic on December 14, 2019

Alison Acheson’s Dance Me to the End: Ten Months and Ten Days with ALS, is a deeply moving account of the horror of disease and the beauty of marriage. Her narrative explores the “sustenance left in . . . ancient stories” (72) and how they can permeate to the bone marrow and help one persevere into......more

Goodreads review by Cathy on May 12, 2020

Powerful, honest, eloquent, compelling, at times humorous and sometimes sad. A story for anyone who has lost a loved one though death or is caring for someone who is dying. We have no rehearsal for this final journey and it is easy to find yourself adrift. Acheson's writing is evocative, her words w......more

Goodreads review by Annie on May 26, 2022

Originally posted on my blog: Nonstop Reader. Dance Me to the End: Ten Months and Ten Days with ALS is a beautifully eloquent and honest memoir of Alison Acheson's experiences with ALS after her husband's diagnosis. Released in 2019, it's 320 pages and is available in paperback, audio, and ebook......more

Goodreads review by Josien on June 16, 2022

Herkenbaar: "One can need to be, and feel, many things at one time, all the time. I was learning that that is what, in part, causes the exhaustion of caregiving." Anticipatory grief Indulge in normalcy "Is acceptance the same as lack-of-hope? Is not fighting giving up?" "In general, it wasn't the suggest......more

Goodreads review by Jacqueline on January 26, 2020

What a beautiful, heartbreaking, and yet heart-building book. In her poetic and yet also practical way, Acheson allows the reader to witness the life of a loving and conflicted caregiver. For anyone who's been in the role, there are so many, "yes, that!" moments. For anyone who has simply loved some......more