Choose the Handle That Holds, Becky Schmooke
Choose the Handle That Holds, Becky Schmooke
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Choose the Handle That Holds
A Guide to Living, Leading, and Owning the Moments That Matter

Author: Becky Schmooke

Narrator: Becky Schmooke

Unabridged: 5 hr 59 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 05/05/2026

Includes: Bonus Material Bonus Material Included


Synopsis

Here’s the truth: Leadership isn’t handed to you with a job title, a corner office, or a trophy. It’s not about managing others or fitting into someone else’s mold. Leadership is built in the choices you make every day—how you show up, face challenges, and own your moments.In Choose the Handle That Holds, Becky Schmooke dismantles the myths that make leadership seem out of reach. Through her own candid stories, humor, and lessons from professional athletes, military leaders, media executives, and more, Schmooke proves that leadership isn’t about power but about small, intentional choices that lead to big impact.More than anything, leadership is the difference between merely passing time and truly living. Grounded in timeless Stoic wisdom but refreshingly relevant, this book is packed with tools like SAFE and STOA to help you navigate life’s challenges, make meaningful decisions, and live with purpose. Don’t let this book collect dust on your shelf. Use it as a guide you pick up again and again whenever you need clarity, confidence, or a reminder that leadership starts with you.Whether you’re leading others, building a strong foundation for your family, overcoming adversity, or striving for personal growth, this book will remind you that leadership is a lifestyle—and it starts with how you live every day.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Christine on April 04, 2025

I've read many books in this genre, but this one truly stands out. Its a thought-provoking read—appreciated her perspective on life and the way she navigates both challenges and successes with grace and insight. Becky offers a fresh, engaging voice on some big, meaningful topics—real, relatable, and......more

Goodreads review by Suzanne Summerwill on February 21, 2025

Becky Schmooke’s “Choose the Handle That Holds…” is a Must Read This book is funny, serious, irreverent, classic and great. Becky Schmooke (pronounced “Smoke”) takes the reader on a rich ride of relatable experiences which intertwine the invaluable principles of Stoicism with everyday (and exceptiona......more

Goodreads review by Maureen on April 25, 2025

While reading ‘Choose the Handle That Holds’, I was reminded of my mother who often preached “We learn from our mistakes.” I had no idea that this was a Stoic principle. I also realized that what I thought was Stoicism, was way off. Becky not only corrected my view of stoicism but in her book, she o......more

Goodreads review by Beth on September 29, 2025

Becky Schmooke has written an important book for our times. Uniquely combining growth strategies and Stoicism encased in her own raw and revealing personal journey bring clarity, empathy and, if I may be so bold, a female sensibility to the time tested wisdom of Stoicism. Her infusion of humor count......more

Goodreads review by Jenn Mepham on February 18, 2026

I really enjoyed Choosing the Handle That Holds. It’s a thoughtful and encouraging read that gently reminds you of the power we have in shaping our perspective and responses to life’s challenges. The author does a wonderful job blending relatable stories with meaningful insights, making it both insp......more