Cammy Sitting Shiva, Cary Gitter
Cammy Sitting Shiva, Cary Gitter
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Cammy Sitting Shiva

Author: Cary Gitter

Narrator: Jesse Vilinsky

Unabridged: 10 hr 24 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 08/26/2025


Synopsis

This stirring debut novel is an unflinching, darkly funny look at loss, family, and coming home—perfect for fans of This Is Where I Leave You and Competitive Grieving.
When Cy Adler dies, it’s a shock to everyone, especially his daughter, Cammy. Almost thirty, slightly aimless, and stuck in a basement apartment in Queens, she’s forced to return to River Hill, her one-square-mile New Jersey hometown, to sit shiva. Cammy’s fraught relationship with her mother, Beth, has never been easy. And now, with her beloved father gone, she would rather be anywhere but back in her childhood room, in a house filled with guests noshing on snacks and offering their condolences. So Cammy does whatever she can to make it through seven turbulent days of mourning.
Amid getting stoned, reconnecting with her best friend and her high school crush, evading the rabbi, and spending a debauched night in Atlantic City, Cammy must reckon with her roots—with the place she fled for the glamour of New York, where she thought she belonged. But is she really any better off than those she left behind? While navigating the swirl of emotions that accompany grief, Cammy also uncovers hidden truths about her father, which lead her to doubt how well she knew the man she adored. Then again, does she even know herself?
Fueled by wry, lively prose, Cammy Sitting Shiva is a deeply relatable fish-out-of-water story, grappling with how it feels to be adrift and to find that a hard trip home may be what it takes to anchor you.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Denise on April 06, 2025

This is a difficult book to rate because it felt so much like autofiction, a very personal story for the author drawn from his own life and gender-swapped, but ultimately I found this intimate portrayal of the ugly ramifications of grief tender and heartfelt. It probably should be renamed Cammy (not......more

Goodreads review by Claire on May 29, 2025

Giving this book five stars, rounded up from 4.5 (even 4.75) WOW. This is *the* new quintessential read for any twenty-something’s — especially but not only the Jewish ones! — drifting through life, uncertain of the path forward or experiencing grief or complex parental relationships. Certainly not a......more

Goodreads review by Bekah on May 03, 2026

A mixed bag. Love the set-up, love a hot mess main character. But Cammy is such a mess it went past relatable to just hateable at times. The graveside scene near the end also felt cheesy. But I binged this in one day so there was definitely some great stuff happening.......more

Goodreads review by The One Where Aimee Reads on May 12, 2025

I compulsively read Cammy Sitting Shiva. The novel is funny, often darkly so, as you follow along the titular character's journey of finding her way through grief after suffering the loss of her father. For such a serious topic, the novel never feels too heavy. It moved me to tears, of course, but I......more

Goodreads review by J on June 04, 2025

I really didn’t love reading about this woman unraveling. I totally understand grief is experienced differently by everyone but she really acted like a selfish, inconsiderate, brat. I guess that’s what the book was written to be and her slow recovery back to what is conventionally acceptable. While......more