Busy Being Free, Emma Forrest
Busy Being Free, Emma Forrest
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Busy Being Free
Starting Again on Your Own

Author: Emma Forrest

Narrator: Indira Varma

Unabridged: 7 hr 56 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 08/18/2022


Synopsis

'Beautiful' Nigella Lawson
'I adored it' Dolly Alderton
'Wonderful' Lisa Taddeo
'Intoxicating' Abi Morgan

What happens when your story doesn't end the way you thought it would?

When you realise - after getting married and having a baby - that you chose wrong?

When the life you dreamt of becomes something you must walk away from?

And when you then find yourself not lonely, but elated - elated to be alone with yourself?

About Emma Forrest

Born in London, Emma Forrest began her writing career as a teenage columnist on a national newspaper. By thirty, she had published three novels and exited journalism to work in Hollywood as a screenwriter. Her memoir Your Voice In My Head is a classic of the genre. Emma wrote and directed her first feature Untogether, which premiered at the Tribeca Film festival. Her most recent novel, Royals, was the Radio 2 Book Club pick.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Lauren on January 09, 2023

I will start by saying that this memoir is witty and raw and for the most part feels honestly and beautifully written. At times I laughed out loud but I also nearly gave up on the book two or three times because the name dropping and superfluous vocabulary became irritating. For example: 1.“Ben will o......more

Goodreads review by Melissa on October 19, 2022

Begrudgingly into it......more

Goodreads review by Apgepps on May 19, 2023

This book just really didn’t do what it said on the can.. It was well written and funny at times, and I liked the introductory chapters, but quite a bit of it seemed like empty good writing, sort of beautiful, and it felt like she was trying to make it profound, but ultimately meaningless. For a memoi......more

Goodreads review by Em on September 19, 2022

I absolutely LOVED this book. I was encapsulated in this world Emma describes so beautifully and looked forward to reading more every night before bed. There are many parallels to my own life the last few years and to feel seen like that wasn’t something I was prepared for. The main thing I respect......more

Goodreads review by Laura on December 01, 2022

Both darker and filthier than I expected (what did I expect from a divorce memoir?) — made me uncomfortable at parts but also opened my mind, overall enjoyable read......more


Quotes

A staggering piece of writing: I had to start it again the minute I finished reading it, and it was just as shocking, absorbing and beautiful on rereading

Compelling, mystical, deeply moving, darkly funny. Busy Being Free is a poetic, incisive, uncensored study of female solitude. I adored it. Dolly Alderton

Alluring, shocking, welcome and wonderful

The most delicious memoir that kept me in bed all day. I wonder what it is like to live with a mind like Forrest's, which makes such shooting connections between things and sees a great pattern in it all. I think she might be a genius. Eve Babitz didn't die, she just regenerated as Emma Forrest

I've really never read about sex and been so sharply reminded about how much it is tied up with the fundamentals of being a woman. This deep part of ourselves that somehow gets side-lined and subordinated by everything else. This ecstatic voice we so often manage to ignore. I can hear Emma's voice though, and it's woken me up

Busy Being Free utterly thrilled me with its exposition of loneliness, solitude, and the differences between the two.
How wonderful to be privy to many sides of a marriage and what comes after it, how wonderful to be shown so vividly that the end of a formal relationship is not the end of life nor even the end of that particular love. Emma Forrest is a master of voicing those human instincts and thoughts which feel too murky or ingrained to be articulated, and yet here she is doing so with enviable elegance on every page

A heart-rending and acerbic memoir of appetite and abstinence

Emma Forrest can write the hell out of anything but where she truly excels is when she's writing about her life, which is often like something out of a novel... A glorious, sharp-as-a-tack-but-full-of-soul exploration of heartbreak and what happens next. RED MAGAZINE

Her writing hums with life, honesty and intelligence and underneath the romance and red carpets is loneliness and vulnerability. THE TIMES

Forrest is examining, with an unflinching eye and a formidable cultural frame of reference... what it means for a woman to find herself alone in her 40s and to redefine herself outside a context of marriage, motherhood and men... One of Forrest's greatest gifts as a writer - apart from her humour; like its predecessor, Busy Being Free is frequently hilarious - is her instinct for ambiguity. She writes so well about messy lives because she understands the contradictions we are all prone to... the fact that she has written about this mid life excavation with such ferocity and frankness is cause for celebration. THE OBSERVER