Biting the Hand, Julia Lee
Biting the Hand, Julia Lee
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Biting the Hand
Growing Up Asian in Black and White America

Author: Julia Lee

Narrator: Julia Lee

Unabridged: 7 hr 5 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 04/18/2023


Synopsis

"Lee's narration of her brilliant memoir is penetrating with insight, raw with confessions, radiant with fury. Her meticulous writing is already stupendous, but the unguarded emotions that flow through her candid voice are a remarkable enhancement. Her tears of frustration and gratitude will surely prove contagious." - Booklist (starred review)

"Lee's narration is powerful. She communicates all of her anger and frustration at the racism she experiences and sees around her. She shatters the idea that Asian Americans are the 'model minority', clearly laying out her points while also imbuing her performance with intense emotions that come from living in America's racist society." - AudioFile Magazine

This program is read by the author.

In the vein of Eloquent Rage and Minor Feelings—a passionate, no-holds-barred memoir about the Asian American experience in a nation defined by racial stratification

When Julia Lee was fifteen, her hometown went up in smoke during the 1992 Los Angeles riots. The daughter of Korean immigrant store owners in a predominantly Black neighborhood, Julia was taught to be grateful for the privilege afforded to her. However, the acquittal of four white police officers in the beating of Rodney King, following the murder of Latasha Harlins by a Korean shopkeeper, forced Julia to question her racial identity and complicity. She was neither Black nor white. So who was she?

This question would follow Julia for years to come, resurfacing as she traded in her tumultuous childhood for the white upper echelon of elite academia. It was only when she began a PhD in English that she found answers—not in the Brontës or Austen, as Julia had planned, but rather in the brilliant prose of writers like James Baldwin and Toni Morrison. Their works gave Julia the vocabulary and, more important, the permission to critically examine her own tortured position as an Asian American, setting off a powerful journey of racial reckoning, atonement, and self-discovery that has shaped her adult life.

With prose by turns scathing and heart-wrenching, Julia Lee lays bare the complex disorientation and shame that stems from this country’s imposed racial hierarchy to argue that Asian Americans must leverage their liminality for lasting social change alongside Black and brown communities.

A Macmillan Audio production from Henry Holt & Company.

About Julia Lee

Julia Lee is a Korean American writer, scholar, and teacher. She is the author of Our Gang: A Racial History of “The Little Rascals” and The American Slave Narrative and the Victorian Novel, as well as the novel By the Book, which was published under the pen name Julia Sonneborn. She is an associate professor of English at Loyola Marymount University, where she teaches African American and Caribbean literature. She lives with her family in Los Angeles.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Mai on July 06, 2024

I was quite young during the 1992 Los Angeles riots. I'm ashamed to say I didn't learn about the event until Anthony Bourdain visited Koreatown. I'm sure Korean Americans look back on this area nowadays through a gentrified lens, but what was LA like back then? What is it like now? Growing up Asian A......more

Goodreads review by Thomas on April 30, 2023

A great memoir that interrogates Asian Americans’ racial positionality in the United States, by a Korean American woman born in Los Angeles, who later attends Princeton for undergrad and Harvard for her PhD. Julia Lee writes about the racism she faced both in these educational spaces and outside the......more

Goodreads review by Lydia on November 28, 2022

Julia Lee is such a great writer. I really enjoyed her life story. I couldn't put this book down as soon as I read the first page. Lee’s fight is ultimately against oppressive systems of power (as many as she can smash), but at every turn she presents us with deeply personal stories of her own strug......more

Goodreads review by Hannah on February 12, 2025

The book was uninspiring at first. It felt like a giant whine against white supremacy. But as I got deeper into the book, I realized it was more than that. There were a few a-ha moments for me about my own Koreaness: 1. It wasn't just my parents who didn't want to talk about the war or about the Japa......more

Goodreads review by Christina | readingthroughatlanta on April 29, 2023

"Justice isn't BIPOC folks feuding with one another for a small piece of pie. It's realizing that we all deserve more of the whole damn pie." In Biting the Hand, Julia Lee uses her memoir as way to not only share her lived experience as an Asian American in the United States but also as a way to con......more


Quotes

Biting the Handvivid, powerful, and empatheticgrapples with the story of how ‘America’ got made, is made, and will be made. The harshness of this story is often forgotten or misused. This book reminds us of some of its complicated truth.”
Jamaica Kincaid, author of A Small Place

“An awe-inspiring memoir that traces Julia Lee’s search for her place in America. Lee sheds light on nuances of the Asian American experience that will ring familiar to anyone who has ever struggled to know where they stand. This book is a must-read for anyone looking to gain a deeper understanding of Korean Han, the Asian American experience, and the power of resilience.”
David Chang, founder of Momofuku

Biting the Hand messed me up, and I love it. The book was able to circle and ultimately pounce on something I’ve been afraid to write through for years. Julia Lee has really written a lush treatise on the politics of expectation. It’s phenomenal.”
—Kiese Laymon, author of Heavy

“Hopeful, honest, and bitterly funny, Julia Lee offers a captivating story of teaching and learning, listening and speaking out, how we distinguish who we’re supposed to be from who we might become.”
Hua Hsu, author of Stay True

“A brilliant, fearless, vulnerable examination of our shared journey navigating racial caste structures in America. This is the book of my heart that wasn’t my story to tell, so I’m elated that Lee cracked open her heart for us to travel with her.”
—Kimberly Jones, author of How We Can Win

“A memoir that brims with wit, intelligence, vulnerability, and delicious rage, Biting the Hand is the fiery manifesto of an ‘angry little Asian girl’ that delivers on so many levels. A perfect distillation of scholarship, lived experience, and revolutionary call for the liberation of all peoples.”
—Phuc Tran, author of Sigh, Gone

“[Biting the Hand] consistently glimmers with humor, vulnerability, idealistic clarity, and, as promised, incandescent rage. Lee’s honest, compassionate analysis of her past mistakes leaves readers plenty of space to address their own. A lively, wise, and immensely insightful memoir about Asian America's relationship with Whiteness.”
Kirkus Reviews (starred review)

“[Julia Lee] dispels the myth of the docile Asian and calls out the absurdities of racial hierarchies in this incisive memoir…Lee’s self-reflective voice and sharp assessment of societal failures yield a revealing and righteously infuriating work.”
Publishers Weekly

“[A] clear-sighted memoir humming with justified anger…[Lee] untangles the complexities of existing outside the Black/white racial binary that has long defined American society, powerfully calling on anyone who has felt invisible to aid in the dismantling of the existing power structure.”
Booklist


Awards

  • New Yorker Best Books of the Year
  • NYPL Best Books of the Year
  • Kirkus Reviews Best Books of the Year