Beyond Contempt, Erica Etelson
Beyond Contempt, Erica Etelson
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Beyond Contempt
How Liberals Can Communicate Across the Great Divide

Author: Erica Etelson

Narrator: Erica Etelson

Unabridged: 7 hr 6 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 05/15/2020


Synopsis

How liberals can talk with, and listen to, Trump supporters without blowing a fuse   Liberal and progressive frustration, grief, and alarm over Trump's destructive political agenda and behavior have prompted mounting disdain for Trump supporters and other conservatives. This reaction is contributing to political polarization and unwittingly serving to strengthen Trump’s hand as he sows divisiveness and hatred. In Beyond Contempt, Erica Etelson shows us how to communicate respectfully, passionately, and effectively across the political divide without soft-pedaling our beliefs. Using Powerful Non-Defensive Communication skill sets, we can express ourselves in ways that inspire open-minded consideration instead of triggering defensive reaction. Providing detailed instruction and dozens of examples of how to discuss hot button topics,Beyond Contempt is a must-have guide to productive dialogue that can defuse hostility, build trust, and open hearts and minds in unexpected ways.  About the Author
Erica Etelson is a writer, community activist, and certified Powerful Non-Defensive Communication facilitator. A former human rights attorney, she has advocated in support of welfare recipients, prisoners, indigenous peoples, immigrants, and environmental activists. She has also organized for clean, community-owned energy as part of a just transition to a local, low-carbon economy. Following the 2016 election, Etelson became active in the resistance movement and in left-right dialogue initiatives. Her articles have appeared in the San Francisco Chronicle, San Jose Mercury News, Progressive Populist, Truthout and Alternet. She lives with her husband and son in Berkeley, California.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Daniel on December 23, 2024

I'm giving the book five stars to bump it up to the recommender algorithm. Books like this need to be more widely read. The main takeaway is that most people have an instinct to experience (and express) contempt for people who violate the standard they hold other people to. Etelson explains how the......more

Goodreads review by John on February 16, 2022

Cries for greater civility in the public space have been growing in America for years. From a battered Rodney King in Los Angeles ("Why Can't We All Just Get Along?") to the Republican-friendly Hank Williams Jr., ("Why Can't We All Just Get a Long Neck?") to the current book, by a California communi......more

Goodreads review by Beth on March 04, 2020

This book is a must read for any liberal who is concerned about our democracy and wants to move the country in a healthy direction. Etelson demonstrates how liberal contempt is alienating swing voters and driving prospective supporters away, and shows how to communicate “across the great divide” in......more

Goodreads review by David on February 01, 2020

Just mind-blowingly good! If you want to understand what motivates Trump supporters and how to reach their hearts and minds, this book is for you. This book showed me that what I thought was impossible -- talking to people who seem to inhabit a parallel factual and moral universe--is not only possib......more

Goodreads review by Dan on April 02, 2021

This is a fantastic book. It should be read by any liberal who wants to listen, and potentially change minds. In fact, it should be read by anyone who wants to have real conversations about controversial topics. It has changed my mind about media that used to entertain me by sneering condemnation of......more