Bad Bad Girl, Gish Jen
Bad Bad Girl, Gish Jen
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Bad Bad Girl

Author: Gish Jen

Narrator: Jen Zhao, Gish Jen

Unabridged: 11 hr 59 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 10/21/2025

Categories: Fiction, Women


Synopsis

L.A. TIMES 15 BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR • TIME "100 BEST" • RUPAUL'S BOOK CLUB PICK • An engrossing, blisteringly funny-sad autobiographical novel tracing a tumultuous mother-daughter relationship.

“A transcendent work of art.” —Boston Globe

“Gish Jen has written the multigenerational mother-daughter epic of our new century.” —Junot Díaz

“Heart-piercingly personal. . . . Suffused with love.” —Los Angeles Times

My mother had died, but still I heard her voice. . .

Gish’s mother, Loo Shu-hsin, is born in 1924 to a wealthy Shanghai family whose girls are expected to restrain themselves. Her beloved nursemaid—far more loving to than her real mother—is torn from her even as she is constantly reprimanded: “Bad bad girl! You don’t know how to talk!” Sent to a modern Catholic school by her progressive father, she receives not only an English name—Agnes—but a first-rate education. To his delight, she excels. But even then he can only sigh, “Too bad. If you were a boy, you could accomplish a lot.” Agnes finds solace in books and, in 1947, announces her intention to pursue a PhD in America. As the Communist revolution looms, she sets sail—never to return.

Lonely and adrift in New York, she begins dating Jen Chao-Pe, an engineering student. They do their best to block out the increasingly dire plight of their families back home and successfully establish a new American life: Marriage! A house in the suburbs! A number one son! By the time Gish is born, though, the news from China is proving inescapable; their marriage is foundering; and Agnes, confronted with a strong-willed, outspoken daughter distinctly reminiscent of herself, is repeating the refrain—“Bad bad girl! You don’t know how to talk!”—as she recapitulates the harshness of her own childhood.

Spanning continents, generations, and cultures, Bad Bad Girl is a novel only Gish Jen could have written: genre-bending, courageous, wise, and as immensely incisive as it is compassionate.

About The Author

GISH JEN is the author of five novels, two books of stories, and two works of nonfiction. Her honors include fellowships from the Guggenheim Foundation, the Radcliffe Institute for Advanced Study, and the Fulbright Foundation, as well as the Lannan Literary Award for Fiction and the Mildred and Harold Strauss Living Award from the American Academy of Arts and Letters. Her stories have been chosen for The Best American Short Stories five times, including The Best American Short Stories of the Century; she has also delivered the William E. Massey, Sr., Lectures in American Studies at Harvard University. She and  her husband split their time between Cambridge, Massachusetts, and Vermont.


Reviews

Goodreads review by James on March 05, 2025

Thanks to Netgalley and Knopf for the ebook. A lovely autobiographical fiction, where the author recreates her mother’s life, first as she’s born into a wealthy family from Shanghai and then comes to America for college and ends up stranded once China explores into an all consuming Communist Revolut......more

Goodreads review by Emily on November 03, 2025

Really interesting book. This isn’t necessarily a 5 star book that makes me want to tell everyone I know to read it, but I loved how it written so well and bit different (could’ve been 30ish pages shorter but). This book really made me think about family, generations before us shaping our childhood,......more

Goodreads review by Elena on November 20, 2025

[ 3.5/5 stars ] This is a semi-biographical fiction about Gish Jen's mother and the tumultuous mother-daughter relationship. Spanning continents and generations, this daughter's memoir is an immersive family history that highlights Gish's mother as a fearless and rebellious daughter who is often calle......more

Goodreads review by JASARA on November 11, 2025

I am always amazed by life in different time periods and places. There is so much you can learn from the experiences of others. This biography/memoir, covers almost a century of life, love and loss.......more


Quotes

“The story of what it means to be American in an era of sweeping demographic change enlarges Bad Bad Girl, sweetened by comic touches and a final note of grace.” Hamilton Cain, Washington Post

“Trigger warning for any daughter who has ever had a fraught relationship with their mother: Bad Bad Girl may prompt a flood of feelings not felt since adolescence. . . . A heart-piercingly personal work that also imparts universal truths about the immigrant experience—and what it is to be a daughter, a mother and a woman. . . . Suffused with love and a desire to finally understand. . . . How rich this book is, and how humane. . . . A marvel.” —Los Angeles Times

“Moving and healing.” —Boston Globe

“Funny, sad and poignant.” —People

“A gimlet-eyed account of a difficult mother-daughter relationship. . . . Jen has applied [her] candid but big-hearted style once described by Fresh Air’s Maureen Corrigan as ‘Frank Capra-esque’ to one of the central dramas of her own life.” Colin Dwyer, NPR.org

"A poignant, genre-bending novel. . . . Inventive, empathetic.” —San Francisco Chronicle

“What an amazing f***ing novel, wild like love and twice as revealing. Gish Jen has written the multigenerational mother-daughter epic of our new century. Bad Bad Girl spans decades, oceans, continents, generations, languages, showing us we can escape almost anything—except the voices of our parents. Intergenerational mother-daughter mayhem of the absolute best smartest vexing most moving kind.” —Junot Díaz, author of The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao

“An unsentimental, insightful, and brutally honest account of Chinese family relationships, in China and the West.” —Jung Chang, author of Wild Swans

“The difference between the mother we had and the mother we may have wanted is at the heart of Gish Jen’s novel-cum-memoir. . . . Her compassion for Agnes is as voluminous as her hurt. Families are spaces of burning complexity, parents are ever flawed, ever human, grappling with their private heartbreaks. This book is not a forgiveness, but an acknowledgment that it was hard.” Diana Evans, Financial Times

★ “Astute and revelatory.” —Publishers Weekly (starred)

★ "As portraits of tough mother-daughter relationships go, it’s as moving as they come.” Kirkus Reviews (starred)

★ “Heartbreaking and stunning.” Library Journal (starred)

“A uniquely faceted, cross-cultural mother-daughter drama of anguish, fracture, determination, humor, loyalty, and love. . . . Ravishingly vivid.” Booklist (starred)

“Standout. . . . What makes Bad Bad Girl a pleasure is the deft plotting and the sympathetic portraits of the main characters, even when they’re behaving their worst. It’s one of the best tales of mother-daughter relationships you’ll encounter.” —BookPage (starred)

“Singular. . . . Extraordinary. . . . Strikingly authentic. . . . Both deeply personal and universally resonant. . . . This book is imperative for anyone interested in immigrant experiences, the complexities of family, and the art of writing personal history.” Shelf Awareness (starred)

“Gish Jen is the absolute master of extremely funny devastation.” LitHub

“A stunningly executed genre-bending book. . . . Forthright and profound. . . . Because of [Jen’s] courage, Bad Bad Girl is an extraordinary book.” Carol Iaciofano Aucoin, WBUR

“Playful, witty. . . . Jen imagines her mother as a young woman full of dreams, with a rich inner life, who approached the world with awe. . . . In the novel’s closing pages, the writer’s grief—not only for her dead mother, but for the relationship they never had—erupts on the page. . . . Strikingly poignant.” —Rhoda Kwan, Times Literary Supplement

“Unflinching yet compassionate. . . . Courageous and brimming with emotional intelligence. . . . She spans continents and decades without ever losing sight of the beating hearts at the story’s center.” Kaitlin Jefferys, Voice Magazine (U.K.)

“Reading Bad Bad Girl, I felt a deep ache for mothers and daughters divided by culture and silence. Gish Jen writes tenderly about a woman carrying old China in her bones while raising a child in America. This story shows how quiet courage can be, and how a ‘bad girl’ is often just a woman who refuses to vanish. Many will find comfort and recognition in these pages.” —Xinran Xue, author of The Good Women of China

“A tender, poignant family history, laced with sharp insight and quiet humour. Bad Bad Girl is not just the story of women who journeyed from the old world to the new, but also of the luminous, deeply personal world they carried within.” —Yan Ge, author of Strange Beasts of China