Aflame, Pico Iyer
Aflame, Pico Iyer
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Aflame
Learning from Silence

Author: Pico Iyer

Narrator: Pico Iyer

Unabridged: 4 hr 48 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Penguin Audio

Published: 01/14/2025


Synopsis

NATIONAL BESTSELLER

“Reading Aflame may help many to lead lives of greater compassion and deeper peace of mind.” —His Holiness the Dalai Lama

“A perfect read for the noisy and anxious world we live in right now." –NBC Today Show

“Slender and splendid.” – The Marginalian, Best Books of 2025

From the bestselling author of The Art of Stillness, a revelatory exploration of the abiding clarity and calm to be found in quiet retreat

Pico Iyer has made more than one hundred retreats over the past three decades to a small Benedictine hermitage high above the sea in Big Sur, California. He’s not a Christian—or a member of any religious group—but his life has been transformed by these periods of time spent in silence. That silence reminds him of what is essential and awakens a joy that nothing can efface. It’s not just freedom from distraction and noise and rush: it’s a reminder of some deeper truths he misplaced along the way.

In Aflame, Iyer connects with inner stillness and joy in his many seasons at the monastery, even as his life is going through constant change: a house burns down, a parent dies, a daughter is diagnosed with cancer. He shares the revelations he experiences, alongside wisdom from other nonmonastics who have learned from adversity and inwardness. And most profoundly, he shows how solitude can be a training in community and companionship. In so doing, he offers a unique outsider’s view of monastic life—and of a group of selfless souls who have dedicated their days to ensuring there’s a space for quiet and recollection that’s open to us all.

Radiant, intimate, and gripping, Aflame offers ageless counsel about the power of silence and what it can teach us about how to live, how to love, and, ultimately, how to die.

About The Author

Pico Iyer is the acclaimed and bestselling author of more than a dozen books translated into twenty-three languages, most recently The Half Known Life: In Search of Paradise. His journalism has appeared in Time, The New York Times, The New York Review of Books, the Financial Times, and more than 250 other periodicals worldwide. His TED talks have been viewed over eleven million times. He divides his time between Japan and a Benedictine hermitage in California.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Gary on January 19, 2025

Here's what I wrote in the newspaper: [URL not allowed]......more

Goodreads review by Ned on January 24, 2025

I’m usually interested in what Pico Iyer has to say. Indeed his 2014 book, The Art of Stillness, is among my most treasured. But Aflame often reads like an incoherent jumble of notes, quotes and anecdotes scribbled on scraps of paper and collected in a shopping bag over many years. I suppose they ha......more

Goodreads review by ✨Yuhh✨ on May 13, 2025

DNF 37% It felt like some weird promotion for the retreat center. Pico seemed to be happy to leave/handover his life's responsibilities every time he went there. It was also unclear how many times he was going back and worth as it wasn't clearly linear. Definitely a weird narcissistic or self-absorbe......more

Goodreads review by Deb (Readerbuzz) on August 19, 2025

Who knew what wonders silence can bring? Pico Iyer does, and this is a book in which he shares the knowledge he has gained from years of periodic silence. I shall read this again.......more

Goodreads review by Riley on February 09, 2025

maybe it's just not for me, but this felt like one of those books that talks a lot without ever actually saying anything?......more


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Praise for Aflame:

“Pico Iyer [is an] untiring steward of the human soul…. Slender and splendid.”The Marginalian, Best Books of 2025

“Rendered in subtly powerful prose, the result sheds fresh light on the need for stillness in a noisy world.”Publishers Weekly, Best Books of 2025

"This gentle and captivating book, with its cast of attractive and sometimes eccentric seekers of tranquility and goodness, is a long answer to the question of why its author keeps returning to the Hermitage."Los Angeles Review of Books

"Aflame is a gorgeous book." – BookRiot

“In this spare, delicately woven memoir, he combines portraits of the people he has encountered during his stays with crystalline descriptions of the natural setting and philosophical ruminations on the purposes of retreat... a powerful work of observation in which deep truths seem to arise almost by accident.”The New Yorker

"I love a good self-help, motivational book, but so many of them can leave people stressed with all their to-do lists. But this book is different...perfect read for the noisy and anxious world we live in right now." – NBC Today Show

"When the cacophony of the world grows too loud, author Pico Iyer knows just where to go...In Aflame: Learning From Silence, Iyer highlights this contrast while distilling his musings from over 100 visits to the monastery. A timely collection of epiphanies both small and life-changing — all conceived in stillness from a small, modest cell overlooking the Pacific Ocean."San Francisco Chronicle

“An ode to the religious retreat… Aflame honors this sanctuary and the monks and nuns who offer silence and solace to those in search of peace.”Lion’s Roar

“Beautiful… Iyer masterfully and lyrically shows us how we may need to find a new home - one far more solemn, communal and silent than our present one - in order to return properly to ourselves.” – Alain de Botton

“Pico Iyer has been studying sincere practitioners from many religious traditions for a long time and has gathered some of what he’s learned in this book. I trust that reading this book may help many to lead lives of greater compassion and deeper peace of mind.” – His Holiness the Dalai Lama

“Luminous and exquisitely simple, it is astonishing how Pico transports you into the joy of the mystery. And then, lit with love, he shows you how to find it everywhere.” – Jack Kornfield, author of A Path with Heart

“Aflame is an exquisite book, a jewel, a treasure, and appearing at a time when silence can teach us to see more deeply, to love more surely. This timeless book reveals an inner landscape that is aflame with wisdom.” – Joan Halifax