Accidental Kindness, Michael Stein
Accidental Kindness, Michael Stein
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Accidental Kindness
A Doctor's Notes on Empathy

Author: Michael Stein

Narrator: Alan Carlson

Unabridged: 6 hr 10 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 10/18/2022


Synopsis

We will all be patients sooner or later. And when we go to the doctor, when we're hurting, we tend to think in terms of cause and condemnation. We often look for relief not only from physical symptoms but also from our self-blame. We want from our doctors kindness under any of its many names: empathy, caring, compassion, humanity. We look for safety and forgiveness. But we forget that doctors, too, are often in need of forgiveness—from their patients and from themselves. No doctor enters the medical profession expecting to be unkind or to make mistakes, but because of the complexity of our current medical system and because doctors are human, they often find themselves acting much less kindly than they would like to. Drawing on his work as a primary care physician and a behavioral scientist, Michael Stein artfully examines the often conflicting goals of patients and their doctors. In those differences, Stein recognizes that kindness should not be a patient’s forbidden or unrealistic expectation. This book leaves us with new knowledge of and insights into what we might hope for, and what might go wrong, or right, in the most intimate clinical moments.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Meg on November 23, 2024

To be honest, this book is hard to read, as far as writing style, which is 90% rhetorical questions and lists of unresolved logical and emotional possibilities. However, I find the ideas this book brings up and processes through to be highly valuable and important. As someone disabled and chronicall......more

Goodreads review by Shadira on January 06, 2023

We will all be patients sooner or later. And when we go to the doctor, when we're hurting, we tend to think in terms of cause and condemnation. We often look for relief not only from physical symptoms but also from our self-blame. We want from our doctors kindness under any of its many names: empath......more

Goodreads review by Maria Amanda on November 23, 2024

Too real not to be relatable.......more

Goodreads review by May on July 28, 2023

I am not up to date with some of the medical terminology in this book. “We often look for relief not from physical symptoms but also from our self blame.” It’s interesting to analyze the patient vs doctor aspect because we will all be a patient at some point in our lives. I think I will read this bo......more

Goodreads review by Vanessa on April 08, 2023

Dr Stein makes a strong and beautiful case for kindness (accidental or otherwise) to be part of the covenant that serves the doctor patient relationship. I think he makes an even broader case for kindness to underpin every relationship that is worth caring about.......more